Post # 1
There is a thread on the ring boards asking if anyone got their dream ring. Although I love my ring, it isn’t my “dream” ring(I totally plan on buying myself that, ha ). I did get my dream man though . We talk so much about our rings on WB, I want to hear about the guys/gals who gave them to us! Tell me why your SO/FI/DH/DW is everything you dreamed of.
Treats me like a princess and totally babies me.
Loves our animals as much as I do
has helped me raise my daughter like his own
loves seeing me happy
Thinks I’m beautiful all of the time
Tonight, I sent him for ice cream at the place by our house. It was closed, so he drove to the other side of town to get me the kind of ice cream I wanted
Post # 2
I never had a “dream” partner in my mind and I don’t really believe in the idea. I always wanted a relationship and marriage where both are equally supported, respected and loved. We have that together and I am quite happy.
Post # 3
Uh, yeah! He’s devilishly handsome, hilarious, ridiculously romantic, great in the sack, calm when I’m hungry, slow and cautious when I’m wild and uninhibited, and he has a beard. What more could you ask for?!
Post # 4
I couldn’t have dreamed up a more perfect man than my dearest FI. He’s simply the best. Perfect in his flaws and perfect for me! 🙂
Post # 5
I never thought I would end up with a man like I have. I was always a plus size gal not really popular in highschool but I was super outgoing. We met at work and were FWB for the longest. He was a jock playes every sport. In shape. Funny. Not out going that much. He’s my opposite. He’s the pb to my jelly.
He babies me. He trusts me. He believes in me. He loves me, god does he love me. I can see it in his eyes. he is so emotional when it comes to me and our daughter. If anything ever happened to us it would ruin him. He’s so perfect. He’s a pain in my ass a lot but god is be perfect. I am sooooo blessed to have. Man like him. He does eceruthing he can for us. I could never say enough how much I appreciate Him.
Post # 6
Also yes! Although he is the complete opposite of what I thought I wanted. Don’t have a list ladies!!!
He is handsome, kind, generous, tolerant and always says yes to new adventures! He is my favourite person.
Post # 7
Love all these responses! My husband is pretty much my opposite too. I think we balance each other out.
Post # 8
I never had a dream husband because I never believed that I would marry until I met my husband.
My husband is a wonderful man because:
- He tells me that he loves me every single day.
- He sends romantic texts every day.
- He spoils me in any way that he can.
- He gives great advice.
- He can admit when he’s wrong.
- He is an amazing lover.
- He accepts me for who I am.
- He helps me heal from trauma with love and devotion-such a patient guy!
- He reminds me to take care of myself instead of always looking out for others.
- He’s helping me laugh and enjoy life more.
Post # 9
You know that guy you see in sappy romance movies that you don’t think actually exists…. I’m marrying that 😉
Post # 10
My DH has been away since Monday. This is the longest we’ve ever been apart, which I know I am luckier than some women on here in that aspect. However, the time apart has made me realize even more how much I love myDH and how much he means to me. He is definitely my perfect partner.
Post # 11
I’ve never been a sappy or romantic kind of lady so I’ve never thought about a “dream guy” or this ideal soul mate person. Honestly I just wanted a man to be great in bed, have a good head on his shoulders, and make me laugh and that’s what I have so I’m happy. I think we choose who we love and make it work.
Post # 12
mandipandi: I think love is a choice also. I recognize the fact that we are happily married because we both choose to stay committed and love each other. I believe love is absolutely a choice you continue to make in strong marriages, and not just a forgone conclusion because you have a ring on your finger.
Post # 13
Just to clarify, I just want to here about what makes your partner your dream now. It doesn’t have to be how they met a preconceived idea of who you wanted. I don’t think that happens that often. It would be a short thread if those were the only people I wanted posting, lol. In fact, I wouldn’t have been able to even start it. My husband is nothng like I thought I wanted.
Post # 14
I am the loud extrovert and my husband is a quiet introvert.
He calms me down and anchors me while I provide excitement for my husband.
Post # 15
Bridey77: YES. We are absolutely one-in-a-million soul mates, I feel like we have our own entire secret world together. I always wonder if other couples have what we have (maybe everyone does, idk). We laugh constantly, actually the other day a guy in our building saw us in the hall and was like, “oh! you’re the couple that’s always laughing!” We have some different interests, but lots of overlapping interests and hobbies (so enough different to stay interesting, enough in common to “get” each other). We have similar worldviews, we’re both introverts, we have the same sense of humor, and we want the same kind of life. I know it’s cheesy but we also just have this really intense chemistry. Often when we meet new people we get asked how long we’ve been together, or people reference that we’re just in that “new relationship glow”- when we tell them we’ve been together for 6 years they are totally floored. I honestly feel like the luckiest person in the world. I didn’t think I’d be someone who’d have a love of their life, but I do! It’s crazy what can happen when you wander into the right bar one night.