(Closed) Spin-off – Do you feel unsafe in your home?

posted 6 years ago in Home
  • poll: Do you feel unsafe in your home?
    Yes, but only if I'm alone : (45 votes)
    29 %
    Yes, even when there are others here : (5 votes)
    3 %
    No, I feel safe in my home : (99 votes)
    65 %
    Zip-a-dee-doo-dah : (4 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    8041 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @SpecialSundae:  Do I feel unsafe in my home? Yes, sometimes… when I am alone. I have to qualify this by saying that I am a really paranoid person and I’d feel unsafe if I lived in Fort Knox. This isn’t based on reality.. it’s based on my wild imagination.

    Post # 4
    955 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I have never felt unsafe in my home….I live in a good neighborhood, but i try to be as alert and aware of goings on in the area as much as I can.


    People get into trouble when they get complacent and don’t keep an eye on things.  


    I like to routinely check the crime report for my neighborhood on the city’s website.  I think in the past year, there’s only been three “incidents” all of them were thefts from vehicles.  It’s pretty boring around here, but I never ever ever leave doors unlocked.  

    Post # 5
    404 posts
    Helper bee

    I often feel unsafe, but that’s my own brain and generally being a stress head, I don’t live in a safe area, we;ve had our cars broken into and a drunk man wanderd into our house once or twice. But it’s not those things that cause the fear, it’s an irrational fear.

    Post # 6
    3170 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Only when i’m alone. I don’t live in a bad neighborhood but I know that bad things can happen no matter where you live, I do have some sketchy neighbors.

    It’s more the thought of having to defend myself that scares me, being the person that has to deal with the bad guy. Not necessarily scared that the bad guy WILL come to my home but if he does, I have to protect myself and my dogs.

    Post # 7
    5800 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I voted I feel safe but I am scared of the dark so other than the “monster” in my basement I’m good 😉

    Post # 8
    4376 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I don’t feel unsafe or safe, per se, so it was hard for me to vote. I feel mostly safe – but I take precautions like keeping the doors locked and leaving a light on in case I come home after dark.  Keep in mind, I’m also the kind of person who gets scared of random noises and won’t go into dark basements by myself.

    I felt more safe before my DH’s job brought about a situation with a criminal (whose records includes a murder charge and who the FBI is investigating for mob connections) who lives very close to us. I don’t worry much in my apartment, but there are certain streets in our neighborhood I won’t walk alone since this happened.


    Post # 9
    8444 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I feel safe from crime (i.e break-ins, murder, etc), but that doesn’t stop my fear of ghosts, monsters and zombie apocalypse.

    Post # 10
    9181 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    I will sometimes lock the front door at night if my guy is gone, when I remember.  Otherwise, we don’t even lock the doors ever.  We live in a small town with low crime rates.  Not to mention, our house does not scream “I have expensive stuff in me!”, haha.

    Post # 11
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I feel safe in my present home.  However, that has not always been the case in previous residences.  I know that bad things can happen even in “good” neighborhoods and thus take precautions to keep myself and my family safe. 

    Post # 12
    1564 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I have never felt unsafe in my home. I live in a very safe neighborhood, where I know all of my neighbors by name. In fact, we don’t even lock our doors except when we go on vacation.

    Post # 13
    2755 posts
    Sugar bee

    Yes, which is one of the biggest reasons I’m excited to get out of there. I live in a pretty craptastic neighborhood on the first floor of a carriage house surrounded by a couple of shady parking lots on 2 sides. I get really creeped out a lot and don’t love that my landlord is lax about security.

    Post # 14
    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @Sugaree:  +1 I agree

    Post # 15
    2808 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I live in a very safe neighborhood, but I always feel a little uneasy when I’m home alone overnight. Darling Husband travels a lot so this happens frequently, but I do lock checks before bed, always make sure the bar is down in our sliding door, and I lock the bedroom door at night.

    My 9mm and pump-action shotgun sometimes help me feel better as well, but I’d prefer to never have to use them.

    Post # 16
    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I feel safe in my own home..we have security alarms and a very protective dogs. We know most of our neighbors and just the neighborhood over all is pretty safe area.

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