(Closed) Spin off do you guys do it when youre on your period…

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you do it?
    Yep, a little red tide never stopped us! : (171 votes)
    47 %
    No way!! I think its gross : (127 votes)
    35 %
    No Way!! SO thinks its gross : (64 votes)
    17 %
    We aren't intimate anyway : (5 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 62
    Member
    22 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Day one iif he needs it, I will give him a BJ. Usually day one is my most crampy/bitchy day.  After that we use a towel and shower afterwards.

    Post # 63
    Member
    21 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    He gets blowies but I am grossed out by the of having IC if Aunt Flo is in town.

    Post # 64
    Member
    6294 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @Kandiss16:  I didn’t vote, for 2 reasons: first, I haven’t had a period in like 3 years due to the BC I’m on; second, when I did have period, sex wasn’t on the cards, but not because we thought it was ‘gross’ – I have endometriosis and sex can hurt anyway, but during and around my period it feels like I’m being stabbed and is so painful I black out.

    Post # 65
    Member
    5063 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I’m so miserable with cramps & pain. I can’t even cope with cuddling. 

    Post # 66
    Member
    5063 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Sorry double post

    Post # 67
    Member
    25 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I’m crazy turned on during my cycle but he won’t touch me!!!!! He seems to think when I lay down and spread my legs the stuff will shoot up to the ceiling lol!!! Crazy men!! 

    Post # 68
    Member
    560 posts
    Busy bee

    in general

    really heavy one day. that day i am also usually very tired and have horrible cramps-no sex!!!!

    light for another day- sometimes sex

    spotting for 2 days -definitely sex 🙂

    Post # 69
    Member
    522 posts
    Busy bee

    Bleh, no. I don’t mind doing it on the last day or so, but before that I’m just never in the mood. I guess a heavy flow would do that ha. 

    Post # 70
    Member
    971 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Banff, Alberta

    Used to but then it starting hurting when we did, like sharp spikes of pain. So don’t anymore. 

    Post # 71
    Member
    634 posts
    Busy bee

    We take a break. I don’t feel sexually interested while I’m on my period. If that changes over the years, we can reevaluate and throw a towel down. 

    I do still like watching his reactions to sex, so I do often use the time to focus on him, and I think he really enjoys the change of pace. When he gets overstimulated, he tends to go soft, which stressed him out in sex (he’s never had difficulty recovering it) but when I’m on the rag, I’ve made it clear to him that I’m taking my time and enjoying him, and he doesn’t need to be fretting about things like finishing swiftly or at the right time or whatever. It’s not some pity handjob to tide him over, but it is a fun, intimate opportunity when he has no reason to worry about mutual satisfaction.

    That and I think my period blood smells. No matter how many studies try to reassure me that I am more sensitive to the smell of my own menses… It SMELLS.

    Post # 72
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    1118 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    At the end when its light I ALWAYS want to, but he refuses because he thinks its gross.It sucks, even with BCP my period is nearly a week long, and he won’t touch me until I promise him its gone. Unfortunately it doesn’t stop him from bugging me about how horny he is and how much he wants to have sex/ a blow job. It drives me crazy.

    Post # 73
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    1992 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    We typically don’t, but we have before.  It kind of wierds my SO out.  I don’t mind it though.

    Post # 74
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    1891 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    No. I can’t use BC so my period is very heavy and I have terrible cramps. I can’t imagine the added pressure, lol. And as nice as my guy is, I know the blood creeps him out! 

    Post # 75
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    1603 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    It’s called blowjob week for a reason! 

    Post # 76
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    1017 posts
    Bumble bee

    @Kandiss16:  I realise this is an old thread, but there needs to be an option for “yes, but only using a SoftCup or diaphragm so that there is no mess”.

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