(Closed) SPIN OFF: Have many Bees NEVER been cheated on?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Have you ever had a partner who was unfaithful?
    No, I have never been cheated on : (178 votes)
    57 %
    Yes, I have had one partner who was unfaithful : (71 votes)
    23 %
    Yes, I have had more than one partner who was unfaithful : (39 votes)
    12 %
    I don't know for sure, but suspect I have been cheated on : (27 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 61
    Member
    326 posts
    Helper bee

    I’ve been cheated on but it was because I refused to marry him after a month of dating so he married some random. So after that I realized I didn’t want to date someone just because but because I saw a future. That lead to a string of flings, two had me all messed up in the head and quite a few became obsessed with the idea of marrying me. It was humorous because I just wasn’t ready even for the two that messed me up, I knew I wasn’t but it still hurt me for being treated like crap because I didn’t want a relationship. A few years down the line I met my fiance and knew I wanted to be in a relationship with him. Rest is history. 

    Post # 64
    Member
    656 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    Miss_Mae:  Haha! I really do think the poll is interesting and I am horrified by the statistics I posted. I would have answered your poll much differently if I had taken it 15 years ago, however, and I imagine most bees are the age I would have been (30) or younger. I lived it, however, and it opened my eyes to what people are capable of. 

    Post # 65
    Member
    13 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    My fiance and I have never cheated on each other. I knew he was the one from the moment I opened the front door, and when he kept on asking me out on dates and being an old school gentleman, it sealed the deal. I had dated guys who didn’t want a committment, wanted to date around or who were far more interested in me than I was in them. I also have found out after the fact that there has been times of whether they were realllly separated from their SO or not has been questioned. I’ll leave it there, but ladies: if you have to call a woman in a different state because your husband’s phone has a number in it and this has happened before, maybe you should re-evaluate how trustworthy he is. That was absolutely ridiculous. 

     

    My fiance gets hit on a good amount, it comes with his line of work as a police officer. He’s had his butt pinched while working details, numbers handed to him; and I find it endearing when he tells me this. I find it endearing because it boosts his ego a little to know that he can say “I’m sorry, I’m taken..”. Oh, badge bunnies. 

     

     

    Post # 66
    Member
    2129 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    ancaire24:  Sterotypically cops are known to be cheaters. An associate of mine had an affair with an cop and she told me how amazing he was in bed and kissed/licked every part of her…I was sick to my stomach listening, I felt so bad for the unaware fiancé. To my associates defense she didn’t know he was engaged when he was rocking her world until after she found out he got married (she told me this story after he was married so I couldn’t yell at her for sleeping with him lol)

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