(Closed) *Spin-off* Is there any wedding request you made your husband adamantly refused?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1409 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

I wanted to get married on a beach but he insisted we get married in a church. Which I eventually was fine with! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

my FH said no chicken dance.  I’m OK with that.

Post # 5
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

We’re not doing a first dance because he doesn’t want everyone staring at us.

Post # 6
5189 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

He doesn’t want to dance, not even with me. It’s fine because I don’t like to dance either. I am hoping after a few drinks I’ll get to catch him dancing with someone though! 

Post # 7
2490 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

My guy doesn’t want a big wedding but everything else he doesn’t care about.

My ex refused to wear a pink tie too… it wasn’t a big deal because I wasn’t totally stuck on any ideas. But he also refused to have any pink in his bout too, that was frustrating.


Post # 8
9674 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

He doesn’t want our head table named Pride and Prejudice (instead of table numbers our tables will be named after books we like), still trying to twist his arm on that but so far he hasn’t budged. So it will probably be the parents’ table or another table instead, and ours will probably be Harry Potter or something, since that is the only book we share in common!

Post # 9
526 posts
Busy bee

Oh good Lord yes. Darling Husband was extremely involved in our wedding planning process.  Drove me nuts!  He was very picky about the decorations, the music, and the food.  He also insisted on no dancing. 

Post # 11
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My husband refused the idea of doing a first look for a very long time. Finally we went to a wedding and the couple took pictures after the ceremony which meant we were waiting for 2+hours at the reception. I finally got my husband to agree to a first look so that we could take picture before. He ended up loving it!

Post # 13
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@susi_petunia: Haha! Happy he was cool with the pink tie in the end. ๐Ÿ™‚ My Fiance has been adament about a lot of things which I was cool with at first. But he isn’t helping much with planning so I decided he can’t be adament about anything unless he’s involved.

Post # 14
1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I wanted to wear my veil back all the way down the aisle towards him. It is much prettier pushed back because the pleating makes a cascading effect. But I got outvoted. He wants it over my face because he wants to lift it to kiss me, which I thought was very sweet. 


Pushed back (the way I wanted to wear it)


With the blusher down (the way he wants it)

Post # 15
4062 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

no first look. he’s adamant that the first time he sees me will be walking down the aisle. I’m ok with this one though.

The one that I don’t get – he is Scottish, born and raised in Glasgow. His parents are still there. We are getting married in Glasgow and he WON’t wear a kilt!! I’m soo sad ๐Ÿ™

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