(Closed) Spin-off: Strippers…OK to tag along as escorts??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Eh…. It wouldn’t bother me, personally. But if it at all bothers you then you need to make it clear to your Fiance as soon as possible. 

The thing you need to remember is that these girls are not out to get your Fiance (and I mean no offence to you or him at all when I say this) and are most likely not going to be attracted to him. They’re doing their job, they’re just there for the money. 

I’m not saying you should be okay with this, it’s perfectly okay if you’re not. I’m just giving you another perspective since you said you’re unsure.

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Idk I always thought the strippers on the golf course was a pretty fun idea. I mean they’re in public so its not like they can really do anything.

I don’t think this is a right or wrong thing, I think this is a what are you comfortable with thing.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

What the…? Dosen’t that defeat the purpose of bachelors getting together? Isn’t that saying “We got you this hot chick for the day to ‘pretend’ with”. Um, no! Not ok in my books!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Also, I just noticed that YOUR dad is going to be there. You have absolutely nothing to worry about, I doubt your Fiance would do anything even slightly inappropriate with your dad there.

ETA: Oh nevermind, I read the situation wrong. I thought you were talking about your FI’s own party. My mistake, disregard what I said above.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

I think it is kind of funny. A bunch of guys have to pay for female company…. hahaha

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Gingersnap: Oh, I thought it was her own Fiance too.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

It sounds like a really funny idea to me! But I don’t think that I’d be ok with it…

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have never had an issue with strippers at all, but for them to tag along for the whole day – no.  I wouldn’t mind them being at the golf thing, I have seen that before, but the whole rest of the evening that just goes one step too far, IMO.

Post # 10
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Honey bee

I think it’s kind of funny too, but no, I’m not ok with that. You hire people because of the service they provide– you know, like a chauffeur drives, a tour guide guides…  They’re hiring the women for what? Accessories? Witty conversation (why would it need to be escorts then)??

Um, no.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

I don’t think it’s funny. I would not be cool with it and it’s quite disturbing. It’s like ok honey have fun with your prostitutes! I can’t wait to marry you!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I guess I’m missing the point here… why would they want strippers to hang out with them while they play golf?

I’m would not be okay with this, but that’s just me.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I wouldn’t worry about this at all, although it seems like a HUGE waste of money.  How much does it cost?!

Post # 14
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Honey bee

@tksjewelry: I’ve seen it before too, and it weirds me out. Hiring pretend “friends” or “lovers” to hang out with your actual friends (who know they’re fake) so you can appear to be more attractive to people who don’t know you (but can tell the girls are probably hired)… strange.

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