(Closed) Spin off: Would you be upset if your FI was watching porn that…

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would this upset you?

    Not really? Should it?

    Yes but only if it extremly didnt resemble me. Like if he was watching dude on dude

    Yes, it would upset me greatly!

  • Post # 32
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    This has never crossed my mind, but no, it wouldn’t bother me.

    Post # 33
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    Bumble bee

    Nope, if he wanted someone like me I’m right down the hall! If anything it kind of makes more sense to me to look at porn that doesn’t resemble me. 

    Post # 34
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

    Eh I wouldn’t be upset if they girl looked like me because really there aren’t many girls who are porn stars who do look like me. 

    Post # 35
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    Sugar bee

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    @katieandtheo:  Who is your celebrity crush? I’m going to guess Alexander Skarsgård.

    Post # 36
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think it would be way more odd if he was watching porn of people who looked a lot like me.  But neither option would really bother me at all.

    Post # 37
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    Blushing bee

    I wouldn’t care at all. He can even watch some dude-on-dude action if he wants, doesn’t bother me. 

    Post # 38
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

    I think it might be a bit more bothersome if he ONLY watched porn that had girls in it that looked one certain way and that way happened to be nothing like me. Than I would probably be like wtf asshole! if your gonna watch nekkid women, at least watch a variety so its not so blatently obvious that im not your friggin “type”. Fiance watches all different types of girls. He prefers the more natural “average” looking girls since he says its more realistic and immitates life more. I don’t really care about porn in general but I would give him crap if all he watched was tall skinny bleach blondes. I am short, chubby, with dark hair and olive skin lol. But only in a joking way would I mess with him about it.

    Post # 39
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    Buzzing bee

    I honestly don’t know what kind he watches, or if he even watches it regularly(though I’m sure he has), but no it wouldn’t bother me. I don’t care.

    Post # 40
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    YES! This exact thing happened/happens and his porn collection is big boobed blondes while I’m dark haired and small chested. It wouldn’t bother me as much if his ex wife didn’t look just like his taste in porn stars. UGH!

    Post # 41
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    “Maybe I’m delusional but it makes me feel better”

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    @Mrs. Petit Four:  LOL love this line!

    It’s hard to say.  I agree with stardustintheeyes that it would be bothersome if that was the only porn he watched.  I guess it just comes down to how you feel in the relationship.  I can get pretty crazy jealous if I feel like I’m not his number 1 (I don’t care if he looks at other women, I just have to be his favorite), so I can’t honestly say it wouldn’t bother me.  My Fiance and I will watch porn together, and it hasn’t been an issue for me thus far; but then again, the girls are very similar to me and my Fiance makes me feel very secure (he always calls me his dreamgirl).

    Post # 42
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Nah! I may be bothered if the ONLY porn he ever looks at is the exact opposite of my looks, then I might wonder if he truly is attracted to me if all that ever gets him off are girls that look completely different in every way. I only mean if he was constantly only ever looking at porn of a specific girl type (blonde hair, blue eyes, taller, small boobs, specific age, etc. for example).

    Otherwise, I fully understand that there are many things that attract us to someone, it could be as simple as he liked her ass.

    Post # 43
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    My husband doesn’t watch porn, but I voted “Not really, should it?” My issues with pornography–that he respects–are the industry itself and not stemming from jealousy.

    That said, most of the women he finds attractive resemble me in some way. The men that I find attractive run the gamut, though.

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