Post # 62
I don’t think I was the other woman… I have this friend at work, who is married, and we started to have feelings for each other, so we stopped talking. He is having trouble with his marriage, and I’m having problems in mine, so we decided we needed distance from each other while we figure out what’s going on.
I know that if we were both single, I would absolutely fall in love with him. If I was single, but he was not, I have no idea what I would do. I’d like to think I would not talk to him, but I don’t know.
It’s like Carrie & Mr. Big from Sex & the City, I guess. You’ll never know what you would do until you are in that situation. I bet six months before Carrie & Mr. Big had their affair, Carrie never thought she would knowingly be the other woman.
Post # 63
i was young, we were both in the military and deployed overseas. we were both in unhappy marriages, we met it was instant attraction and i fell in love. we were together every day for the 4 months i was deployed. i was stationed in england and he was in cali, we both went back to our bases and a couple months later i flew to cali while his wife was gone. it was an amazing weekend. however he decided to “find religion” and became this weird holier than thou person and basically shamed me that i wasnt good enough and that what we had was nothing. i was crushed. he went back to his wife because she had a baby, but last i heard he has divorced her and remarried. i know now that it was wrong, and even though i know my feelings were real it wasnt the right thing to do. i would never do that again, thanksfully ive met the one and dont have to worry about being in that situation again.