- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
So I absolutely believe that you should not invite folks to wedding related events that aren’t invited to the wedding… BUT… what about this case.
When Fiance and I got engaged, that month was also my birthday, his birthday, and my graduation from school so we threw ourselves a “crazy month of celebration” party to celebrate all of those things plus our engagement — we invited only local friends to a good restauraunt and treated them to dinner.
A lot of people didn’t come and I’m not worried about them but there are a few people who I know from some of the volunteer activities I do that came but unfortunately won’t fit on the guest list (about 4 plus their SOs). I feel guilty about not including them and its nagging at me… but the party was much bigger than an engagement party and we threw it ourselves…
What do you think?