(Closed) SPINOFF: do most people prefer to have baby boys?

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
  • poll: Which would you prefer?
    Boy : (118 votes)
    24 %
    Girl : (202 votes)
    41 %
    I genuinely would not care : (162 votes)
    33 %
    I don't plan to have children : (11 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 91
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    Busy Beekeeper

    Boys. I know how to relaye to boy kids easier. 

    Post # 92
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    1577 posts
    Bumble bee

    Most people I know wanted girls when they were pregnant, actually!

    I have a nearly-one year old daughter and if I were to have another baby I would want another girl ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 93
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    412 posts
    Helper bee

    We wanted a girl. I actually was thinking awesome if a girl, still pretty cool if boy. Husband was way more ‘team girl’. He has 1 brother, all male cousins (and all offspring of those cousins are boys), and 4 nephews. That whole family is a little ‘over’ boys. Only 1 niece that was a little angel. Also he always wanted to have a bunch of daughters and have them come visit their dad, with all their kids and be like, well like his grandpa that had a lot of daughters. We started too late to have a bunch of kids though. 

    Post # 94
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    412 posts
    Helper bee

    Daizy914:  That is one of the least stupid posts I’ve seen. Beautiful and good luck. Also if you have a girl depending on the name you could make a cool girl version for the middle as an option. 

    Post # 95
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I know that once I’m pregnant, I’ll won’t care, but until then – I’ve always wanted boys (DH wants a girl, though). Considering that fact that we have yet to find a girl’s name we can agree on, I’m sure we’ll have all girls. 

    For me, the desire to have a boy first comes less from the older brother concept (I had a friend who had AWFUl older brothers) and more the experience of being the eldest and a girl. In my experience, and from talking to many people in the same position, I think being a first-born girl is very different from being a first-born boy, and I think it’s easier for boys. That said, it’s just my perspective, not based on anything scientific.

    Post # 96
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    I’ve noticed that men generally want boys, and women want boys to make their husbands happy. But if it was just for themselves, I think most women want girls ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 97
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    4581 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We kind of thought we would have a boy first but I honestly did not care either way. We were really excited when we found out we were having a girl! Dear Daughter is now 1 and we’re trying to decide when to TTC #2. Again, I’d be thrilled either way. I’d love to have a son but another girl would be super fun also.

    Post # 98
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    733 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    When I was pregnant I was torn. I loved having a older brothers and liked the idea of having a boy first. However, both my side and DH’s side had lots of grandsons and no granddaughters. Darling Husband really wanted to give his mom her first granddaughter. I was the only one pulling for a boy. By the time we went for the anatomy scan, I still liked the idea of having a boy first, but the thought of giving everyone else what they wanted was stronger. We ended up having a girl and I am so in love with her I couldn’t imagine anything else. 

    Post # 99
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    402 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: Royal Park Hotel

    Haha I SO want a boy…actually boys.  I would love a house with 2 or 3 boys….which means the universe will probably give me girls!

    My sister in law is having twin boys and I’m so jealous!  She really wants girls though but I know in the end – she won’t care.  That’s usually how it works lol

    Post # 100
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: A very pretty church.

    Girls, but that’s because the strongest people in my family are women, I want that line to keep on keeping on. Living up to it would also be nice 

    Post # 101
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I am hoping for a girl first, Darling Husband wants a boy first. We both want to have one of each, though. That being said, we are not finding out the sex of the baby during my pregnancy, so I can’t wait for the moment when baby comes and we hear “it’s a boy” or “it’s a girl”!

    Post # 102
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I have only one child and when I found I was pregnant I really, really, REALLY wanted a girl.

    And I got one

    Post # 103
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    hollyberry4:  I dont really care, so long as they are happy and healthy. But I’d prefer a girl first. Because my SO wants us to have 2 (which I’m fine with) and I neither want a boy then girl or 2 boys (because I would really like one of each, ideally). I was a girl with older brother and he was incredibly physical with me growing up. I wouldn’t want a daughter of mine to go thro that.

    Post # 104
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    2697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    hollyberry4:  

    That’s funny, my Fiance and I were talking about this last night. We would both like to have a little boy first, but we wouldn’t be disappointed by having a girl… if that makes sense?

    I guess it is the older brother protector vision is a part of the reasoning. I had an older brother and my Fiance is the older brother. In a perfect world we would have 2 boys and a girl. We shall see.

    Post # 105
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I personally would LOVE to have a little boy first. My Fiance and I have already decided that if we did, we love the name “Logan Arnold” (first and middle names). I would personally keep the gender of my baby a surprise until he/she is born and even if I don’t have a little boy, I would be happy with a little girl. So long as they are healthy! But secretly, yes I would prefer a baby boy ๐Ÿ™‚

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