(Closed) SPINOFF: Do you and your SO/FI/DH use the toilet in front of each other?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you and your SO/FI/DH use the toilet in front of each other?
    NEVER!!! Bathroom time is private time. : (99 votes)
    37 %
    Ehhh, we do but it's not my favorite. : (12 votes)
    4 %
    All the time. No secrets in this house! Bombs away! : (40 votes)
    15 %
    We don't, but it wouldn't bother me if we did. : (8 votes)
    3 %
    We do, but it gets on my nerves that he doesn't respect my privacy as much as I'd like. : (1 votes)
    0 %
    We will only do "#1" in front of each other...not "#2." : (110 votes)
    41 %
  • Post # 3
    13095 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    It isn’t a frequent occurance or anything but we have peed in front of each other before (like I’m at the sink while he’s at the toilet or I’m in bed but he left the door open kind of thing).

    But #2 is definitely private time.

    Post # 4
    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2018 - Stone Rows Farm

    This is a funny topic!!! I am axctaully INCREDIBLY pee shy.. So honestly.. the only time i can pee in front of him, is if hes in the shower.. and i absoluteley can NOT hold it….and even then, most of the time i have to put my head down and plug my ears.. yes i know its all in my head! But him.. most of the time he pee’s and leaves the door open and doesnrt really care.. I’m alot more private about it than he is..

    Post # 5
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Lol we’re fine with going #1 in front of each other but never #2. Darling Husband likes going in the bathroom in our room and I can’t even be in our bedroom (even though the bathroom door is closed). He will literally walk me to the living room to make sure haha. I’m not as protective of my ritual but I still will close the door.

    Post # 6
    374 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I voted never but we have been known to leave the door cracked when we go #1 and talk through the door.  Other than that, I have only #1’ed in front of him once when we were both drunk.  It’s definitely not a regular occurance!  And I like to pretend that neither of us #2s so that’s private time.

    Post # 7
    1137 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Biggest blowout conversation EVER with my group of friends. 1 guy friend thought it was totally normal to do EVERYTHING in front of his Girlfriend and encouraged her to do it as well, even though she wasn’t so sure. They asked a group of us for our opinions, and we all thought it was SO WRONG!!! GROSS GROSS GROSS GROSS GROSS.

    Darling Husband and I don’t even enter a bathroom that the other person has #2’d in for hours afterwards. That’s one of the reasons we love our house so much: 4 bathrooms!!!

    Post # 8
    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2018 - Stone Rows Farm

    @Mrs.KMM: omg #2 is TOTALLLLLY private time.. I agree!

    Post # 9
    813 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    i said never becuase i NEVER do! Fiance always does #1 with the door open.. never #2… that would freak me out! haha

    Post # 10
    5836 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We pee in front of eachother but #2 is private time for me. Darling Husband however could care less, he always seems to want to talk to me the minute I close the door and  he tends to leave the door open when he goes #2. I yell at him to close the door all the time.

    Post # 12
    9028 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Lol I think if a couple are comfortable doing #2 in front of each other I wouldnt say its a bad thing. I personally am not that comfortable I can pee in front of him and he pees in front of me but thats about it

    Post # 13
    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Mrs.KMM: Ditto. But we still face away from one another, LOL. If I’m in a rush and brushing my teeth, he’ll stand on the side of the toilet (back to me) so I can’t be offended, hhahahah. And if I just haaaave to go, he’ll brush from the side of the sink. IDK how he thinks that makes it better, but whatever works for him. 

    Post # 15
    13563 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    No way. We keep that stuff private. Plus, we have two bathrooms in our apartment, so there is no reason for this to ever happen!

    Post # 16
    1868 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    #1 yes, #2 absolutely not!!!I do understand why some would think its strange to use the restroom in front of one another but it has never bothered me. Now that I think about it though I never used the restroom in front of my other boyfriends? Maybe that’s a sign!

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