Post # 1
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Sugar bee
I got this idea from the thread about farting, and it occurred to me that there are a lot of couples that use the toilet in the presence of the other!
Fiance and I have been together for 6.5 years and living together for 2.5, and neither of us has ever used the bathroom in front of the other. He might be on board, but I would never know because there is no way in hell I would let it happen!
Call me Sister Mary Modesty, but I’d like to keep that part of my daily routine private.
What about the rest of you???
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
It isn’t a frequent occurance or anything but we have peed in front of each other before (like I’m at the sink while he’s at the toilet or I’m in bed but he left the door open kind of thing).
But #2 is definitely private time.
Post # 4
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Helper bee
- Wedding: October 2018 - Stone Rows Farm
This is a funny topic!!! I am axctaully INCREDIBLY pee shy.. So honestly.. the only time i can pee in front of him, is if hes in the shower.. and i absoluteley can NOT hold it….and even then, most of the time i have to put my head down and plug my ears.. yes i know its all in my head! But him.. most of the time he pee’s and leaves the door open and doesnrt really care.. I’m alot more private about it than he is..
Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
Lol we’re fine with going #1 in front of each other but never #2. DH likes going in the bathroom in our room and I can’t even be in our bedroom (even though the bathroom door is closed). He will literally walk me to the living room to make sure haha. I’m not as protective of my ritual but I still will close the door.
Post # 6
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Helper bee
I voted never but we have been known to leave the door cracked when we go #1 and talk through the door. Other than that, I have only #1’ed in front of him once when we were both drunk. It’s definitely not a regular occurance! And I like to pretend that neither of us #2s so that’s private time.
Post # 7
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Bumble bee
Biggest blowout conversation EVER with my group of friends. 1 guy friend thought it was totally normal to do EVERYTHING in front of his Girlfriend and encouraged her to do it as well, even though she wasn’t so sure. They asked a group of us for our opinions, and we all thought it was SO WRONG!!! GROSS GROSS GROSS GROSS GROSS.
DH and I don’t even enter a bathroom that the other person has #2’d in for hours afterwards. That’s one of the reasons we love our house so much: 4 bathrooms!!!
Post # 8
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Helper bee
- Wedding: October 2018 - Stone Rows Farm
@Mrs.KMM: omg #2 is TOTALLLLLY private time.. I agree!
Post # 9
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Busy bee
i said never becuase i NEVER do! Fiance always does #1 with the door open.. never #2… that would freak me out! haha
Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
We pee in front of eachother but #2 is private time for me. DH however could care less, he always seems to want to talk to me the minute I close the door and he tends to leave the door open when he goes #2. I yell at him to close the door all the time.
Post # 11
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Sugar bee
We pee with the door open all the time when we’re home alone together. #2, never. That’s just a bit more than I’d like to share with him.
Oh, and because it’s hilarious, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090527230604AAUcdZ1
Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
Lol I think if a couple are comfortable doing #2 in front of each other I wouldnt say its a bad thing. I personally am not that comfortable I can pee in front of him and he pees in front of me but thats about it
Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
@Mrs.KMM: Ditto. But we still face away from one another, LOL. If I’m in a rush and brushing my teeth, he’ll stand on the side of the toilet (back to me) so I can’t be offended, hhahahah. And if I just haaaave to go, he’ll brush from the side of the sink. IDK how he thinks that makes it better, but whatever works for him.
Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
No way. We keep that stuff private. Plus, we have two bathrooms in our apartment, so there is no reason for this to ever happen!
Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
#1 yes, #2 absolutely not!!!I do understand why some would think its strange to use the restroom in front of one another but it has never bothered me. Now that I think about it though I never used the restroom in front of my other boyfriends? Maybe that’s a sign!
