(Closed) Spinoff- Do you know your SO’s number?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you know your SO's "number"?
    Yes, he told me : (289 votes)
    72 %
    Yes, I found out somehow : (10 votes)
    2 %
    No, but I don't really care : (81 votes)
    20 %
    No, and I am really curious what it is : (23 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    366 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Yes. Though he admitted when we first started dating that the number he had told me when we were just friends was actually a tad larger. He was afraid I would think he was easy and so shaved a few off…

    Post # 4
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    He told me.  It was one of the first things we discussed.  He’s only slept with one other person and it’s his ex of 5 years.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5215 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2010

    Yes, we know each others number and it was an involved discussion that happened very early on in dating.

    Post # 6
    Member
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Yep, I know.  I asked and he told me.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5787 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    He might have told me at one point but I don’t remember what it was… Nothing scandalous.

    Post # 8
    Member
    87 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Yes, we discussed both of our pasts early in the relationship. I think it’s important for safety issues, and knowing each other’s history has never caused any problems or jealousy or anything like that. We both also were tested – not very romantic, I know, but hey, these are the times…

    Post # 9
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    1093 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Yes, we had that discussion awhile back. We both thought it’s better to get it out in the open.

    Post # 10
    Member
    802 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Yeah, I asked & he told. He asked & I told. Honesty, baby!

    Post # 11
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    9672 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I know roundabout; it’s about half what mine is. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    812 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Fiance has never been with anyone but me. He doesn’t want to know what my number is because nobody before him really mattered.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1595 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @shinythingsrule:  haha, great poll! I would be interested to know my SO’s #, although I know it will be very high…TBH I don’t know that he even knows it ! AH! (as long as he knows it has only been 1 in the past 3 years- since we have been together, then were good!)

    Post # 14
    Member
    9672 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @MsChippyChap:  Oh, yes, always get tested!!!

    Post # 15
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Yes.  Personally, I wouldn’t be willing to be in a serious relationship with someone who wasn’t willing to share that with me.

    Post # 16
    Member
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Yes. I asked out of curiousity. 

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