Post # 1
This is a spinoff of the “Husband going too far?” post. Many of the comments are bees saying how they would never try anal sex, it can never be pleasurable for the famale, it is gross, etc.
My husband and I have participated in anal sex many times, and at one point, I very much enjoyed it. The last few times we have done it have been more painful, so we stopped. We probably havent had anal sex since this past spring/summer.
Anyways… I always assumed that anal was more or less common and that lots of couples did it.
Just curious to see the responses.
Post # 2
I know several couples who enjoy it, but I will never try it.
I have had an anal fissure before. I can’t imagine that anyone who knows how excruciating that is, and how long it takes to heal, would ever let anything up there.
Post # 3
It’s something I requested to try with my husband but not with him up there, I can’t imagine ever wanting to do that- too big and uncomfortable! But with vibrating anal beads I love it cos I feel fuller and he can feel the vibration too. We don’t do it often, maybe only 3-5 times a year tops and always only when I suggest it.
Post # 4
I don’t want it all of the time or anything, but it’s definitely common enough in our rotation. Typically booze is involved. I have amazing orgasms from it and so does he.
Post # 5
I have tried anal a couole of times. I didnt enjoy it, wouldn’t try it again. Its just not my thing.
alexam : regarding the other thread, I saw one comment that anal sex was not pleasurable for a woman. The vast majority of comments about the anal sex aspect of that thread pertained to the husband’s preasure and manipulation of his wife to participate in anal, when she is clearly not interested. And you better believe that is gross and disgusting.
Post # 6
- Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course
I enjoy it so its a regular thing for us but similar to sharpshooter there’s generally a happy helper involved. Usually sativa and/or booze. But I can see how its not for everyone. An experience with some selfish twat who has no regard for a womans enjoyment or crappy technique with no foreplay might have soured me on the issue. Anal/DP orgasms are incredible though.
Post # 7
- Wedding: April 2021 - City, State
No, not for me, then again, I am borderline asexual anyways and I am not really interested in sex much period. Though, when I was a virgin before I had sex for the first time, I had a huge interest in sex and wanted it so bad with the right person when I knew they were in it for the long haul and wouldn’t leave me anytime soon and would be willing to try so much, but anal was never one of those sex acts in my mind that I wanted to try. Sex to me was kind of a one and done sort of thing. Like something to cross off my list of experiences. It is too bad it involves a lot of touching because I hate being touched.
Post # 8
- Wedding: June 2017 - A vineyard
If it is something a person is interested in trying or at minimum okay with the idea then have at it. Just be super careful. I’m not interested in judging anyone for it.
However I was raped and anal was used as the primary method for quite awhile until I was injured and only then did the anal method stop. So I am not and never will be okay with it.
Post # 9
Stuck between third and fourth option. My husband and I tried it once. It wasn’t BAD, but it hurt for me. Still, I would think I could try it again, except I refuse to do it while pregnant – the rectal pressure is already painful enough without another item stuck in my body XD
Post # 10
I am seriously grossed out by buttholes, no matter how clean they are. I gave a rim job a few times to an ex a veeery long time and it was SO UPSETTING to me lol. We are into some semi-kinky things, but this particular dish will never be on the menu in our bedroom.
Post # 11
I really enjoy some anal stimulation in sex, but full anal sex is usually too much effort to be worth it for me. In the past, I have done it and have enjoyed it, but, quite frankly, the majority of the time, I’m far too lazy to want to go through all the preparations necessary to make it enjoyable. Plus, my FH is quite a bit larger than those I’ve dated in the past so the initial pain is greater no matter the degree to which we have prepared.
Post # 12
I love anal sex and always have really good orgasms from it! It’s a part of our regular rotation; we typically do it about once or twice a month.
Post # 13
My stance has always been this- The size dick I enjoy in my pussy is too damn big for my ass and the size dick I MIGHT consider for my ass is entirely too small for my pussy. 🤷🏽♀️ It’s a conundrum.
I’m sure there are people who find it pleasurable and I’m also sure that there are women who do not find it pleasurable who are doing it, anyway. I have no issue with women doing what pleases them; I fully support it.
Post # 14
On the regular.
We don’t need any more prep than normal and does not hurt. Fh is much larger than average and no probs. Helps being uncut.
There have been minor trauma here and there but not a big deal.
It’s not my fave but it is his so I do oblige. Turning him on turns me on, I do not og from it. Bjs are not my fave either but I’ll do them same reason.
He was also upfront with me when we were dating, before we had sex, about his fetishist etc.
Post # 15
Have tried it. Don’t care for it. But my best friend loves it. To each their own.