(Closed) Spinoff- do you participate in anal sex?

posted 2 weeks ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you participate in anal sex?
    Never have/never will : (43 votes)
    32 %
    Never have/would consider trying it : (12 votes)
    9 %
    Have before/would not try again : (30 votes)
    23 %
    Have before/would try again (or frequently participate) : (48 votes)
    36 %
  • Post # 17
    Member
    949 posts
    Busy bee

    Nope. Too much effort and too many horror stories. The anus’ relation with feces is super gross anyway, so that’s a huge turn off by association. 

    And not to give Too Much Information, but I’ve struggled with “digestion issues” my whole life and have unpleasant experiences down there on the regular…I’ve never understood why people would *want* to feel that sensation over and over again, but maybe I’m missing something. 

    I did consider it once…dh has expressed before that he always wanted to try it (we were both virgins before we got married to each other), and I wanted us both to know what it’s like at least once…but I chickened out last minute and we’ve never brought it up again. I do feel bad that he may never know, but it’s not worth the function and comfort of my butthole. Maybe someday…

    Post # 18
    Member
    331 posts
    Helper bee

    I’ve never tried and don’t want to. I’ve tried a finger and that just felt uncomfortable/unpleasant, plus IBS means I’d rather stay away from that area. Always assumed I was in the minority and that it’s a normal part of sex for a lot of people. 

    Post # 19
    Member
    2161 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    It’s definetly in my regular rotation!! Utilizing good quality lube and a vibrator always makes for an experience just as (if not MORE) pleasurable than vaginal intercourse. 

    Post # 20
    Member
    4229 posts
    Honey bee

    Never saw the connection between anal and something pleasurable. 

    Post # 21
    Member
    78 posts
    Worker bee

    I’m a big fan, but he doesn’t enjoy it as much, so it’s pretty infrequent for us. We always use plenty of lube, start with a finger, go slow, etc. so that helps. I don’t neccesarily like it more or less than vaginal sex, it’s more like another position to me. Like, missionary might be your go-to, but sometimes you want to switch it up for a slightly different sensation.

    On one occasion we had been having good ol’ fashioned vaginal intercourse and he slipped out, rushed realignment so-to-speak, and accidentally switched to the rear. That hurt like hell since I wasn’t ready. I can definitely understand and respect someone having a bad first experience or a lot of fears around it and not wanting to try. Consent and feeling comfortable are super important.

    Post # 22
    Member
    1067 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Marie2 :  oh god, he wanted it and I was SO bummed. I decided to try a few times because he wanted it so much, but I HATED it. Luckily my husband seems very disinterested in me coming anywhere near his butthole, so I lucked out in the long haul lol.

    Post # 23
    Member
    2996 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2017

    Only if I get to do *his* anus first. Since that will never happen,  neither will he do mine…  it’s exit only.   Lol!

     

    Post # 24
    Member
    931 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2019 - Turkey

    Nope annd nope. 

    Post # 25
    Member
    224 posts
    Helper bee

    Jazzylove :  Ah, okay. I just was kkind of thinking like…what if a guy wants it and is saying he doesn’t want it? But I guess when they are into anal stuff they like EXPRESS IT or always try to sneak something in there LOL. 

    Post # 26
    Member
    98 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2020

    He’s been open about being into it from day 1. He’s asked for it a few times but never pressures me – I’ve let him a few times and his arousal is a huge turn on for me, but it’s painful for me. I’m into it because he is, but I definitely need to be in the mood. 

    Post # 27
    Member
    601 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2021 - Dracut, Massachusetts

    Exit only, thank you.

    My Fiance has asked me a few times and I said no, would you want me to stick my vibrator up your ass? The answer was no and it gets dropped.

    Post # 28
    Member
    10036 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    Man I was off the bee for the holiday and I come back to butt stuff. 

    Post # 29
    Hostess
    4033 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    slomotion :  Same! Oof. 

    Tried it once with an ex. Never again. 

    D H and I have a deal, anything he wants to stick up my ass, I get to stick it up his first. 

    Post # 30
    Member
    674 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    I have digestion problems so….nope. Going out (number 2) is already uncomfortable enough for me, I would not want something else coming in lol.

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