Post # 16
Darling Husband and I tell each other everything. If you tell one of us something, you are for all intents and purposes telling us both. The only time this wouldn’t apply is if someone specifically asked me not to tell Darling Husband (but this has never happened).
I also assume (and can pretty confidently say I’m right) that our friends are the same way (and almost 100% of our friends are mutual). This doesn’t bother me at all!
Post # 17
I tell him MOST things. Some things are just not his business and he doesn’t need to know, because it doesn’t have anything to do with him,
Post # 18
Hell no. He’s on need to know basis. Everything that my friends tell me is not for him know and vice versa. We share a few things, but having our friends confideance that what they tell us individually stays with private is important to both of us.
Post # 19
@Gingersnap Same here. It’s just understood that whatever we tell each other can be told to our SOs, unless we specifically ask each other not to.
Also, I’m a rambler and a horrible liar. I can’t keep anything from him. 🙂 I have a hard enough time keeping surprises from him because I get so excited and just about burst trying to not say anything.