(Closed) Spinoff: Does your man like a woman who looks like a women?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: What does your SO seek in you?

    Barbie style, thin and blond with perfect hair

    Full figured, loves to eat

    Pale, skinny, red haired.

    Doesn't matter what they look like as long as they can cook a good meal.

  • Post # 47
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Well he likes me, and I’m short, fat and dumpy. I wear too much eyeliner and avoid dresses wherever possible. So I guess I’m not your typical feminine girly girl.

    Post # 48
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I didn’t vote either because none of these options applied to me. I’m short, brunette, and very petite, but I’m not lacking in the assets that men tend to gravitate toward haha. I dress up on my days off, but typically I’m in athletic shorts and a T-shirt for work. Despite that, Fiance never fails to tell me I look great. Like most of the bees who are posting, I don’t fit into a narrow category. I’m just me and Fiance loves me that way. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 49
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    Busy bee

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    @jadlnc:  I totally agree with “I wonder why no one piped up with “Every man looks like a man” in that thread…” Double standards much?!

    Post # 50
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    Sugar bee

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    @novacaineandlaughter:  Exactly my point.

     

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    @cece_intheuk:  yup yup

     

    Why are so many Bees trying to be buzzkills lately? Sometimes thing comes out a little different than it sounded in your head, not the way you meant it. It happens. I wish everyone would get nice already. I’ve seen quite a few “Why is this even a topic?” comments on threads lately too. Cause somebody wanted to chat about it. How is that a problem? Some people seem to have forgotten that this entire forum is about opinions (WHEN ASKED FOR), help and support of each other.

     

    Post # 51
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    Busy bee

    Well I have short hair, I’m opinionated and outspoken and I like sports more than he does… I think he’d prefer it if I was a little more ‘refined’, but I scrub up okay when I need to.

    Post # 52
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I am my fiance’s EXACT type. To the point that it used to bother me a little bit. I’ve always thought I was attractive, but to see pics of his exes and see that we could all be sisters (or at least cousins) was kind of an uncomfortable experience. As far as women who look like women, YES, he would not go for any little bit of perceived masculinity in my appearance. Thankfully, I prefer a feminine look for myself as well, so there’s never been any conflict in this area.

    Post # 53
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    It seems there are no other options for people of other races unless you select full-figured or doesnt matter. I’m AA so none of the choices apply to me nor any of my friends.

    Post # 54
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    Bee Keeper

    @Aquaria:  I couldn’t vote, because none of your options apply.

    My OH likes women who are somewhere between a UK size 8-12/US size 4-8 ie not very skinny, but not big. He likes hourglass figures ie boobs and butt and a defined waist. He prefers long hair, and likes me to wear mine loose, and prefers brunettes to blondes (funnily enough I’m actually blonde lol). He likes fairly natural make-up; his favourite look for me is a bit of bronzer, and black mascara; he doesn’t like eye-shadow/eye-liner/lip-stick etc and I don’t think he notices if I’m wearing foundation or not.

    Clothes-wise, he likes things like skinny jeans with a fitted top, and also likes me wearing nice dresses; usually, more fitted styles either knee-length or just above the knee.

    He likes intelligent women, and also women with a sense of humour. He also likes that I’m laid-back and have no issues with him going out with friends etc. He also likes that I cook, and that I’m a good hostess.

    Post # 55
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    @Rubbs:  +1. These are odd, very specific choices for a poll.

    Post # 56
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Aquaria:  You pinned him perfectly with pale/skinny/red hair. Add “short hair” and maybe some tats and you have his type to a T! I’m not super skinny but I’m thin enough to fit the category quite well. ๐Ÿ™‚ (And I’m not a real redhead but he prefers dyed red anyway.) 

    I’m not sure how feminine or masculine that makes his preferences. But skinniness aside he does basically require a good waist-hip ratio to be attracted, so I guess there’s that. I’ve seen the other girls he likes and I consider them pretty feminine, and I have mostly softer, girlier facial features which he also prefers. 

    I can pull off a slightly androgynous look if I want to but I don’t often do it. 

    I also don’t feel comfortable calling any self-identified woman as “not looking like a woman.” So this thread is a bit odd?

    Post # 57
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

    Those are the most random oll options I have ever seen.?!

     

    My husband likes natural girls, which I’m pretty sure 90% of men like- not too skinny, not too much make-up, not ugly but not overly pretty. He does like long-ish hair though. 

    Post # 58
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    umm none of these apply for me either! ๐Ÿ™‚

     

    My bf likes a tomboy girl. I can spend hours getting ready for an event and he will be like, “oh..you look nice.” but when he sees me in a t-shirt and jeans on the tractor he goes crazy. haha. Fortunately thats exactly who I am- not a huge fan of getting all dolled up.

    Physically we have never actually talked about what he really likes, though he has told me that he loves my coloring/body (blonde/blue eyes/average-muscular size 6. His ex wife had brown hair and blue eyes, a delicate/weaker frame than me and was not a tomboy-at all. He has said many times that he didn’t think a girl like me actually existed-but I do ๐Ÿ™‚

    I always laugh about the coloring thing…he has always had golden retrievers and loves their coloring and my hair is practically the same color…I have an orange cat and a chestnut mare (that is the reddish brown color horse)- and yup! my boy is a red head. haha.

    Post # 59
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My Fiance likes woman who are on the shorter side (as in, shorter than 5’5″), fit (not too thin, but not overweight), but with curves (as in, C-D cup and a nice butt). He doesn’t have a hair color or skin color preference. I happen have blonde hair and fair skin but he’s dated brunettes and tan skinned girls before me. I also happen to fit his preference for height and body type (well I could afford to lose a little weight but it’s not out of control)

    P.S. I love parenthesis ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 60
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Well, my Lik likes dark features. I am the only black woman he has ever dated, but I can tell by the way he looks at me I am definitely his type.

    Post # 61
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

    He’s dated a variety of women, but he’s a personality guy. He does, however, like the booty.

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