Post # 1
Browsing through the board I came across a topic about a lady who wants to be a Stay-At-Home Wife. That topic blew up just like all the other SAHW/M topics I’ve seen here.
What is the most controversial topic you’ve seen discussed?
Post # 3
@tiff-tiff-tiff: I think my have you had an abortion thread caused quite the stir-up.
Post # 4
sahm / sahw
asking for cash instead of gifts
ETA: oh and risqué dresses
those r the biggest ones I’ve seen
Post # 5
cash bar/open bar
who pays for what
long engagements vs short engagements
young or old brides
moissy vs diamond
Post # 6
@Ninteenthchance: I can imagine! I remember seeing an explosion based on diamond vs. moissy (spelling could be off)
Post # 7
Moissantes… such a hot mess every time that gets started. Always some new bee asking a sincere question & it just ERRUPTS!
Also, discussions about the Dollar Dance bring out the dreaded T-word (TACKY)… all the feelings inevitably get hurt.
Post # 8
The weight discussions have been big too…the size 6 short or tall thing was long haha
Post # 9
Any topic about young brides tends to get personal really fast.
Post # 10
Hiring models for the Bridal Party was up there.
Post # 11
@tiff-tiff-tiff: I was on another board and left after I posted about being upset that my parents had backed out of their written agreement to pay for the wedding. The post was overwhelmed with attacks about how unresonable and spoiled I was being. When they turned personal I tried to look the other way, when they got even way more personal I said that’s it and left the site altogether.
PS – Since then I’ve discovered the power of setting boundries and planning on paying for my own wedding on my own terms. I was just really upset because of the timing.
Post # 12
asking family for help financially
Post # 13
@jdhall89: yes! that as well as being engaged under 1 year of dating!!
Post # 14
@AB Bride: I didn’t even know that people do this… wow
Post # 15
Post # 16
Fiances going to strip clubs during their bachelor party.
Beta fish as centerpieces.