Post # 1
My FI saw my dress because he happened to be with me when I found it. (I wasn’t shopping for it, I just saw it suddenly.)
I didn’t think I’d regret it, but now I’m sad he won’t be surprised. Although it is nice that he can reassure me when I’m feeling dress regret. Did you regret it?
I’d love to hear from some married bees whose FI saw the dress before the wedding day!
Post # 3
Not married yet, but FI has seen a glimpse of the dress (on a hanger, not on me). I’m not worried about it, because:
– it’s kind of a silly tradition to begin with
– on a hanger, you don’t really get a sense of what it looks like when someone’s wearing it, and
– most guys (FI included) are ultimately pretty oblivious about clothing details. I’m positive that, if you ask him after-the-fact to describe what I wore to the wedding, he’ll say, “Um, it was a long white dress. I think it had lace or something.”
Post # 4
I’m not normally a traditional person, but I want to keep it a surprise from FI because he’s just so insistant on helping me pick it out! It makes me want to keep it a secret! Silly boys. I’ve let him see some pics of me in dresses that I’m not getting to soothe him, but when I find the one! I won’t let him see it.
Post # 5
FI saw a picture of me in the dress, i dont really care we have a 1yr old and live together so not seeing the dress? lol