- 3 years ago
This is a spin off from a thread earlier today where a Bee asked if we had every cheated soooo….
Have you every been the other woman?
After my pre-engagement relationship ended, one of my friends from high school had passed away, tragically, from a drug overdose. Anyway, I was single for a while, losing weight, and really feeling myself in my black stockings with the seam up the back
After the viewing, we went to dinner and then everyone met up at the dive bar in town. There was this guy that grew up around the corner from me and we would play all the time when we were little. He was always the big, chubby, sweaty kid at school. So much so that the kids had nicknamed him Moose but Moose grew up to embody the story of the ugly duckling! By high school he was the most AMAZING piece of man candy to ever walk the halls. Eight years later, he was still just as delicious as he was when we were 18.
So I arrive at the bar, after changing into something more comfortable and start greeting everyone. I gave my sexy old friend a hug and he asks me to take a seat next to him. He’s buying me drinks, we’re flirting, catching up, and then we go outside to the back of the building and the fun begins. He’s picking me up, throwing me up against the wall, grabbing my hair…it was literally like something you’d see on Shameless…effing AMAZING. Another friend (who since has also passed away) comes outside and sees us and makes a comment about him getting lucky to which I responded “No way, he doesn’t have a chance!”, which was true. I had absolutely no intention of sleeping with him.
I’m really not the type of girl who can separate sex and emotion. I will 100% become a stage 5 and stalk someone’s life, therefore, I know to stay in my lane and keep it in my pants until I know that the guy wants a committment. Moose was definitely a heartbreaker so I wasn’t going to sign myself up for that. Anyway, that didn’t deter him from trying to no avail. The night ended and I didn’t attempt to contact him after. A few days later, I noticed that I was blocked on snapchat. I go on his IG to do a little investigating and there are no signs of anything weird. I go into the photos that he’s tagged in and his GIRLFRIEND had tagged him in 230945230 posts dating back YEARS!!!
I was a bit annoyed but I knew what kind of guy he was going into it. I had asked him if he had a girlfriend and he told me no. I thanked God for not giving me the ability to have casual sex because I feel like I would have been much more annoyed had that happened.
A few months later was when I wound up unknowingly dating a married father of 5 who was a convicted identity theif. For those of you who missed that thread, you can read it here: https://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/personal-story-the-ex-from-hell/page/4/#post-11203684