Member- _blackbird_
- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
So I saw the other thread on a bee’s fear of her relationship with her SO changing after they have kids. It got me thinking about how my relationships with some of my friends have changed after they’ve had children. I’m worried that as more and more of my friends start having kids we will see them less and less and our relationships with them will change drastically. It scares me a bit! I have a girls night once a week and usually hang out with friends on the weekends, but this will most likely change when they all start having children. I think it’s important that my hubby and I have friends and hobbies outside of our relationship, but it’s going to be difficult if my friends are never available anymore. And to be honest, even if we were hanging out and their child was there it still won’t feel the same as before. I don’t know, I’m just worried I’ll lose my friends, and that we’ll get farther apart but my friends will all grow closer together without me because they’ll all have children and I won’t.
Anyone else feel this way??