(Closed) SPINOFF: How do you feel about ADULT FGs?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1742 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@lindseyl06:  I think flower girls should be 10 and under. Anyone older needs to be a bridesmaid.

Post # 4
2037 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

That’s creepy. I would definitely choose no flowergirl over an adult one.

Post # 5
1533 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I think that flower girl is a role reserved for children. It’s belittling to an adult to have to pretend to be a Flower Girl & it looks just plain ridiculous. If you don’t know any kids then you shouldn’t HAVE one! I feel like the only middle ground is if you have a Bridesmaid or Best Man, in a Bridesmaid or Best Man dress, sprinkling flowers.

Post # 6
543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

That does seem strange. I was going to have my grandma walk with my three year old niece (she will tell you grandma is her best friend. So precious!) because she is shy and we weren’t sure she would do it alone. My niece ended up being exhausted so they didn’t walk down the aisle. But JUST an adult flower girl seems really weird…

Post # 7
1737 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I’ve never seen one. I think it sounds goofy.

If they were going for the comedic aspect of it I would think it was funny. I can imagine some of my stupid (I mean that in an endearing way) college friends doing something like that for laughs, But if they’re trying to be elegant or anything I think it looks kinda crrraazzy.

Post # 9
860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

There was actually just an article on the knot about this the other day! http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-questions/kids-at-weddings/qa/adult-flower-girl.aspx

I don’t really have an issue with it as long as it’s done well. We’re actually considering asking FI’s brother to be our Ring Bearer. They’re not particularly close, so Fiance doesn’t want him to be a groomsman, but Future Mother-In-Law really wants him to be involved in some way.

Post # 10
634 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I saw this on pinterest and loved it!


Grandma flower girls!

( other than that tho i think it should be a lil girl)


Post # 11
20 posts

I WAS an adult flower girl and it was awesome!  My beloved older cousin was getting married, and had 6 younger girl cousins all 8-15 years younger than her.  When she was a teenager all us younger girls got obsessed with weddings and started pestering her asking when she was going to get married so we could be flower girls.  We all look up to her and she’s been a huge role model to all of us, so when she did get married at 30 it made sense to invite us all, kind of light-heartedly, to be flower girls! We were all in our mid teens to early 20s.  Of course we didn’t wear silly pouffy childish dresses.  It was a fairly laid back wedding and she told us we could all wear whatever we wanted, but we co-ordinated and all got different floral print dresses.  We walked down the aisle carrying single flowers, i think ahead of the 2 bridesmaids?  It was really fun and we were so happy to be included and support our lovely cousin on her big day. 


There weren’t any younger kids in the family at that time, but now her daughters are getting to be flower girls in all of our weddings, which is pretty cute.


Post # 12
2706 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@lindseyl06:  LOL, Whatttttt?  I had to check my mental definition of Flower Girl.  It’s not a FG if it’s a FW.

Just, no.

Post # 13
3380 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I love and will fully-support anything outside of “the norm” that we have seen 50 million times each. The only reason it seems “strange” is because it’s not what we are used to, as there is nothing inherently weird about a person walking with a basket tossing petals.

A 4 year old cousin walking halfway down the aisle before plopping down crying or peeing her pants? Been there, done that.

Grandma flower girls? Our dogs as “flower pups”? Bring it on.

And, for the record, I would have loved to have seen the bride in the green and purple dress. I’m sure she felt fabulous.

Post # 14
6386 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

 I think it’s weird to call an adult a flower girl, flower lady or flower woman maybe?  I’ve never actually heard of anything like this, I always thought teen/adult females would be considered some sort of bridesmaid.

Post # 15
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@badabing88:  +1

I went to a wedding once with flower men! I loved it.

Post # 16
3380 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@desthebride:  That is adorable 🙂 We are doing “flower pups”, based on some of these pics I’ve been collecting for inspiration:


And these are our two Boston Terriers 🙂

Pretty much everyone I talks to thinks it’s “stupid”, especially since I have perfectly good little sisters that could play that parts. But that’s the great thing about paying for our own wedding: our rules go 🙂


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