(Closed) How do you get 'crazy' sometimes?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

In my mind every single girl is trying to snatch him up, so I always tell him I’m ready to beat up any lady who tries to get some of that.. hehehe jockingly obviously!

 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

LOL I can imagine getting ready to start a brawl and then being like “oh… nevermind…”

I used to get ‘crazy’ (angry) when Fiance (then bf) would go out drinking with co-workers for happy hours after work and ignore me.  I didn’t expect him to sit there and text me all night, but a text every few hours to say he’s still alive isn’t that hard to do.  I worried because he’s such a lightweight and he’d have to drive home after.  And these happy hours would go til 1-2am.  It’s not like I was worried for no reason.  So that would always get me angry. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I get crazy when I’m trying to get a lot of things done and Darling Husband is not helping.  Happens with cleaning the kitchen a lot.  Especially when I explain to him that I’m really stressed because I have a lot going on and I need his help.  And then he says something like “whoa there calm down” and acts like I’m being all crazy even though all I did was calmly explain that.  Then I start to get mad and raise my voice because he’s blowing me off, and he will laugh.  THEN I go apeshit.  

Okay really now that I think about it that’s not really going crazy, that’s totally legit.  His bad. 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Natalieh86:  oh my god i do the exact.same.thing. And when I’m acting that way i know i’m being a nut but i cant stop and him not understanding sends me through the roof.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@MissBoPeep:  HAHAHAH OH YEA best story thread of all time hah

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@Natalieh86:  That article was SO interesting – thanks for sharing!

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I so wrote the divorce statistics post 🙁 I hope its not negatively affecting you or any other lovely bees. I might just have to delete that post. 

Sometimes I have those moments when I just want to double check his story or double check something, but I live and learn that even if I am betrayed or cheated on that I will be okay. There is so much life outside of what we see and who we dedicate ourselves too. We should love ourselves and as people come and go because of their mistakes (big or small) we have to know that its apart of our lives. Live every day with no regrets and live love as if your last, but if that person doesn’t it’s never too late to live tomorrow happily because you are capable of doing one thing: BREATHING. 

 

 

Love is beautiful, but your supposed to love yourself first. If he cheats he doesn’t deserve you and you don’t have to look, if it happens you will find out. Through prayer and through keeping your eyes open to signs and love yourself.

 

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

@MissBoPeep:  Oh my gosh that’s hilarious!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

Yes. This is me in a nutshell. Everytime he even talks to another girl, I want to scratch her eyes out! haha

We’re taking dance lessons and we have to rotate partners every 2 minutes or so. Everytime I see him dancing with another female, even if it’s an old lady or like a 12 year old, I still get that knee jerk reaction of jealousy. It’s so weird. I know it’s just my own insecurity, but I’m just very territorial about the people I love.

I hate that some of his friends are girls but I’m not going to forbid him to talk to them or anything. He’s known them forever platonically, but the second I see him texting one of them, I’m just want to rip the phone away and text her, “he’s with his girlfriend right now, he’ll get back to you later”. haha

I just have to keep reminding myself that I’m only hurting myself by feeling this way. Being crazy jealous is not going to keep him with me. If anything, it’ll just give him a reason to leave. All I can do is try to be the best girlfriend I can be, and if he’s stupid enough to mess that up, it’s his loss and not mine.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@kmsw:  Its funny you say that.  We think that every woman is trying to snatch our SO because we know personally how wonderful they are.  I always tell my Darling Husband, that girl is looking at you, be right back, I am going to kick her ass. lol 

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