(Closed) Spinoff: How long before you said I love you?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: how long were you together before you said I love you?

    less than 1 month

    1-3 months

    4-6 months

    7-10 months

    11-13 months

    13-16 months

    17+ months

  • Post # 62
    Member
    92 posts
    Worker bee

    Sounds weird, but we said it before we were official. I was in a long-term (also shitty) relationship that I had emotionally checked out of a year before. Broke up once and got back together when we shouldn’t have. My (now) SO and I had been friends for about 4 years at the time of the break-up. As soon as we started hanging out again, it was all over. I couldn’t help myself. BUT  I did make sure he said it first! Sealed

    Post # 63
    Member
    2490 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    He said it drunkenly after about two weeks, then for real another two weeks after that. I waited for him to say it first even though I felt it for real the first time he said it.

    Post # 64
    Member
    22 posts
    Newbee

    Yea, we did things backwards. 🙂

    Post # 65
    Member
    738 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    6 days, he said it right after we had sex for the first time. He has said it every day since 🙂

    Post # 66
    Member
    965 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I voted 4-6 because it was right around the 3-4 month mark for us.  We were laying in bed and he asked me what I was thinking about – I actually don’t remember what I said – but then I asked him what he was thinking about.  He replied..and I quote..”I’m thinking that you look like you want to say you love me.”  Sneaky little sucker, isn’t he?!  Although that was totally what I was thinking, I played it off a little and made him say it first! 😀  He still tries to joke and say that I said the “L” word first, but it most definitely was him!  I think we told each other “I love you” like a million times that night!  It was like we had been wanting to say it for a while, but were too scared and once we were free to say it, that’s all we could say haha! 

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