(Closed) Spinoff*** How to tell your SO…

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Newbee

Why not try and get one for each of you, that way he does not think that you want one because he “isn’t pleasing you enough”. Get a vibrator for you and like a vibrating penis ring for him? Or if he is really shy about it all, i would start by just getting a simple blindfold to use to spice things up. Then once he is comfortable with that expand on other simple toys until he is comfortable enough to use a vibrator.

Post # 4
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1733 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Without knowing your husband, it’s tough to tell what might work for him or what might bother him…and without knowing you, I don’t know how sexually frank you are with your husband…but I would tell him that you’ve been fantasizing about including a vibrator in your lovemaking. Depict it as an accessory to the coupling between the two of you — even if you plan to also use it by yourself (nothing wrong with that).

And make sure when you do buy that you get something that’s hard plastic, hard silicon or metal — something that is non-porous and can be safely wiped down when you’re done.

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