(Closed) Spinoff – I was a stripper for 5 years – ask me anything!

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Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Cool thread. Did you ever find yourself overly attracted to any of your clients? If you did, how did you handle that.

Post # 17
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Buzzing bee

My sister was a “featured dancer” meaning she would be contacted by clubs and travel there to use her name to bring in larger/different clientelle. I would often travel with her as she usually didnt want to go to these places alone.

I have to say, the “no touching” rule really changes the behavior of a lot of the men who go there. My sister started refusing gigs from clubs who allowed touching, simply because the people there were disgusting and disrespectful. She was even bit once by a guy! It changes a lot of guys attitudes knowing your ass is going to be kicked out if you disrespect the girls. 

Also behavior in fully nude vs topless clubs, and clubs that had a drink minimum or not was vastly different as well

Post # 19
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Did you experience any negative consequences at law school/in your day job?  I feel like if my job ever thought I was stripping on the side I’d be fired so fast!  And I would imagine it’s not an easy secret to hide.

Post # 21
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

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UnderCoverBee555:  Yeah, I’m terrible with secrets.  It would eat me up!  

Thanks for sharing!  This is an interesting thread.  

Post # 22
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

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UnderCoverBee555:  Did you ever have a boyfriend while dancing? What was that like? Did he know? How did he deal? 

Did you/do you ever have any guilt? Over what aspects?

will you tell your daughter about your experiences?

 

Post # 23
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Buzzing Beekeeper

How was Character and Fitness?

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Were drugs prevalent? My mom danced back in the day and said it was everywhere. However, this was the 80s. Haha!

Post # 25
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Hopefully I don’t get any judgment for my question, did you ever dance for a pregnant girl?

I ask because I was 7 months pregnant at my bacholer/bacholerette party with my ex and instead of him being the center of attention I ended up being the center of attention lol. The girls were all rubbing my belly and asking if it was a boy or girl, getting me to dance with them. It was a hilarious/fun experience. 

Post # 28
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Did you ever have a client come in that recognized you or that you knew? 

Post # 29
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Buzzing Beekeeper

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UnderCoverBee555:  yeah, we had to list our employment history for the past 8 years with no gaps (among tons of other things) and references were called. The examiners can then call you in for any reason and ask you whatever they want. I had classmates get called in to explain parking tickets so was just wondering if it had come up.

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