Dovetail: oh man, coins disgust me too! I can’t even imagine having them thrown at you.
KC-2722: i was in competitive dance since the age of 5 so I definitely knew how to move! There are girls who just walk around in a sexy way while twirling around the pole who don’t necessarily know how to dance per se but still make money.
FutureMrsHodgy: to be honest at the time it didn’t. It was just normal to have married men and men with boyfriends. It was so normal that I pretty much asaimed the client I was dancing for was married or in a committed relationship. blw that I’m older and engaged, I would surely notice it more and it would make me feel weird I think.
Miss.Casey: the thought of my Fiance going to a strip club is totally fine to me, as long as he doesn’t get a private dance. That’s where I start to get uncomfortable, like, throw up in my mouth uncomfortable. I really hate the idea of some sexy girl being all over him and making him aroused. I hate how society dictates that a bachelor party at a strip club is an acceptable thing and that girls are just supposed to go with it or else her Fiance will miss out or she’ll be deemed ” boring” or” controlling”. I actually wouldn’t mind my Fiance getting a dance where there’s no contact, it’s the physical contact that makes me feel nauseous.
As for pole bruises, they stop happening after a while. And in a dark club with black lights, it really wouldn’t show as much. The lighting in strip clubs is super flatering! I have noticeable cellulite in normal light but a perfect bum in strip club light :p
Scarlett11: no offense taken at all! it must make a huge difference the no touching and no alcohol. Much more tame and not as raunchy at all. I know that’s definitely the case in some states.
kb7: yes, 99% of the money is from dances, unless a client comes on the stage to tip you. The stage show isn’t as important here as it’s not lucrative. I always just thought of the stage show like a way to advertise myself.
kmark2688: haha I don’t think I ever got anyone kicked out actually! But I’ve definitely seem some bloody fights. Mostly just drunk customers at the end of the night nothing too entertaining. Funnily enough I can’t recall witnessing a fight between girls. Maybe some screaming but that’s about it.
christabel: absolutely. Some regulars are there so often and spend to much there’s no way any wife would be ok with that! Ok, I can’t generalize, but that’s the impression I got. I’m sure most wives wouldn’t be ok with it if they knew how much contact was going on. Surely some may be ok with it, but I can’t imagine it was the majority of the clients situations.