(Closed) Spinoff – I was a stripper for 5 years – ask me anything!

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 91
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Helper bee

What do you think of the recent post about the woman whose fiance got a handjob at his bachelor party? I’d be curious what your perspective would be on that. Would you suggest she leave? Forgive him? Do you believe his story that it “happend so fast” and that no one knew it was that kind of place? 

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Helper bee

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UnderCoverBee555:  Sorry it took so long for me to log back in and see this, and thanks for answering my question! My reason for asking was that, like many of us, I’ve been pretty socialized to believe that being a stripper can cause severe regret, psychological damage, all of that. Intellectually I don’t believe it, because it’s a fact that people have different motivations, personalities, and psychological makeups, and will respond differently to any given situation. But I have been exposed to so much of the “bad” — you know, the stereotypes that good/serious girls don’t do this, that those who do regret it forever and suffer because of the “bad” decisions they’ve made, etc.

So when I saw your post volunteering questions I was just really curious. I’ve read “defense” peices by people who have stripped claiming that it’s been empowering, fine, etc., but I was never close to someone who had done it (or had a chance to ask someone, like in this case, how they feel deep down).<br /><br />It’s really refreshing to read that you don’t regret it. Thank you for sharing with me.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 7 months ago by  planningaway.

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