(Closed) Spinoff: If your S/O could change one thing about YOU

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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5572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

He’d change how critical I am of myself. It drives him nuts. He also isn’t a huge fan of my constant “emotional” moments but he knows how to deal with him and he said that he wouldn’t change it (which is good because they’ve only become more frequent with pregnancy!).

Post # 33
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1152 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

He’d definitely change how self-critical I am.  I’m always picking apart details (I overcame an eating disorder) and insulting myself and then getting upset about it and sometimes crying- exacerbated by the nuva ring which I thankfully just stopped.  He’s been really supportive as I’ve had to buy a new wardrobe in a non-size-00 and has given me an objective opinion because I know I can’t trust my own.

About him: I wish he had more confidence about his job situation- he’s fantastic at what he does and I hope to god he knows that being unemployed in a layoff situation is not a reflection upon him at all.

Post # 34
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1889 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I have lots of bad habits that he’d probably like to change, but I’m pretty sure he’d like it if I were a little taller–so would I!  Whenever I wear really high heels, he’s like “Yay!!  You’re tall!”

Post # 35
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266 posts
Helper bee

i think he would change my body image. since we have started dating i have dropped 20 lbs but i still feel like i did before. he always says that he wishes i knew how beautiful i am to him then maybe i would see what he sees.

him, well i guess it would be the fact that he cant make not one decision and it fires me up all the time. btu i guess thats what makes him, him lol

Post # 36
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2390 posts
Buzzing bee

He wishes I were better at cooking or cleaning…or that I tried them at all…I wish he were more easygoing sometimes. He misses deadlines sometimes because the product he has isn’t quite as perfect as he would like it to be.

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

He would DEFINITELY love it if I were social. But, unfortunately for him, I’m a very anti-social loner and that won’t change. 🙂

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