(Closed) Spinoff: Is there anything your lover wants that you dont?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Not really, maybe goig through the backdoor (lol TMI) but it not that i refused, it just hurt no matter how much lube we used lol

 

Post # 4
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Newbee

I had a boyfriend… hmm how do i put this over… who wanted me to be the man in bed… that’s as clean as I can get it 😐 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Anamagana:  Same, this was always something he fantasized about doing, so I let him do it.

I don’t know if I can psyche myself up to trying it again. We took our time and used lube and everything. It just hurt way too bad (it also just did not feel….right to me…) and he stopped when I told him to. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Agree with PP about the back door. I refuse, because to me, that is a one way street! Fiance understands and would never push me to do it, but I know he wouldn’t refuse if I offered one day. 

other than that, he probably wishes I was a little more domineering in bed. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Wut wut in the butt?

We’ve done it before and it just isn’t great for me.  So we don’t do it anymore =)

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Again, a vote for doing it in the out-door.

I’ve allowed him to try twice, but I really dont enjoy it.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

No, thank God! And he is very adamant about not wanting to go up the one way street.

Post # 10
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Newbee

OOH yeah okay that’s a better of putting it he wanted me to go through his backdoor or outdoor *facepalm* i should have thought of that lol…  needless to say the relationship didn’t work out 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@grapefruitgal:  agreed ! its an out not an in. he has never had it and neither have i. nor do i want to experience it. i heard from way too many girls it hurts too much.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

The “backdoor”. (We tried it once for a few seconds, I hated it.)

And swallowing during oral. (I’ve done it before, but it’s a texture thing for me. I don’t like the slimy-ness; even if it’s immediately swallowed so I don’t feel the texture in my mouth, my mind knows what the texture is.)

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

No, there is nothing, we’re very compatible.  We had the “backdoor” discussion right away.  I told him there’s no way, he’s too blessed by the penis gods for that. 

I’ve only done it once, with a guy who had a small dick, but I still hated it, never want to do it again.  Luckily Fiance has no desire for that anyway.  Everything else, I’m good to go and so is he.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

My SO is a little obsessed with wanting to try out the back door. I am %100 against this yet he still feels the need to bring it up quite often. Honestly it may be great for some people but that is a NO ENTER ZONE for me!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I blame porn.  It seems many guys have the backdoor fantasy but not many women find it pleasurable.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ok I asked Fiance why he doesn’t want to do it and he said it’s dirty and it would hurt me. He legit acts disgusted when I bring it up. I’m ok with that reaction haha.

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