Post # 61
I feel like some women are so insecure about losing their man that they will skirt around this issue instead of setting some boundaries in their relationship. It’s ok to tell your man – hey, I don’t appreciate you going to strip clubs, that’s my boundary. A wise old lady once told me you get to choose your partner and your life so choose wisely. You don’t want a guy that goes to strip clubs, don’t be with a guy that goes to strip clubs. If you’re disrespected, leave the guy. Simple.
Post # 62
theatrejulia: I think your first comment was just really poorly worded and tbh I read it as he was making a joke out of them. The follow up makes it seem much more innocent.
The word ‘slut’ is really super offensive op. I’ve never been in a strip club and I couldn’t tell you what goes on. I’m sure as many people have said some are strict others not so much. If my husband pays for sex, strip club or not, it is on him. Not some girl who he seeked out. She didn’t marry me.
Post # 64
I live in vegas. All the strip clubs claim to be “look only” and that’s what you see on the floor. However I know from s few friends who’ve gotten bj’s in the private room session. I have a friend who frequents strip clubs an has a lot of stripper friends… he pays them to come to his place for you know what. My fiance went to a club in Miami a few years back, he told me the girls offered full service in the private rooms. Go figure.
Post # 65
It depends, all strip clubs are different. I’ve been to a few that ANYTHING goes and I do mean anything!!! While others are hands off and you just throw money. With that Being said it really depends on where you are!