(Closed) SPINOFF: The best lesson is a bought one!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

Bought lessons–yeah been there.

First lesson:  Was dating the son of a CFO who came from a lot of $$.  I really wanted to be with him, and he told me that his family had cut him off from cash because he was taking too long to graduate.  Long story short, he moved in with me, I wanted to help him out, and I was paying for EVERYTHING.  Months into the living arrangements I found out that he was getting a lot of money from his parents and not offering to pay for anything to help me out, and he’d leave for weekends at a time.  The first time I was like ‘whats this about’ and then he did it again–and I was over it.  I was lucky I suppose; when he left he gave me 1000.00 in guilt money (I think he thought I would take him back NOPE)

Second lesson:  Dated a man who was 7 years older than me and more established–or so I thought.  He told me that he was a business owner with a painting company for his brother, and that there was an additional house on his brother’s property and it was his and he was fixing it up.  We had the ‘timeline’ talk about 8 months into our relationship–and then he told me he wasn’t a citizen of the US as he failed the test and didn’t feel right proposing or marrying me.  About a week later, I found out from his brother that the guy I was dating didn’t own any part of the business for this reason–he was getting paid under the table from his brother and not paying taxes, nor did the house belong to the guy I was dating, it belonged to the brother!  DUPED!  Broke up with him immediately!

Sigh.  STUPID in love is what I used to be!!!

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