(Closed) Spinoff to the attracted to your SO thread! How would you rate YOURSELF?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10?
    1/10 : (2 votes)
    0 %
    2/10 : (3 votes)
    1 %
    3/10 : (8 votes)
    2 %
    4/10 : (27 votes)
    6 %
    5/10 : (37 votes)
    9 %
    6/10 : (70 votes)
    17 %
    7/10 : (113 votes)
    27 %
    8/10 : (122 votes)
    29 %
    9/10 : (37 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 32
    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    7 on a good day, 4 on an ugly day. Most days are probabday ugly days. Top photo is my Fiance and me. Bottom is me and my dad (face blacked out for privacy).

    Post # 33
    480 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    It depends on the day and the occassion and my confidence levels. I’m not ugly, but nor am I stand out good looking. So somewhere between the 6 and 8.5 mark. I used to be about a 9 when I took better care of my hair and body, wore more makeup and made more of an effort. Now I’m like “meh” most days and don’t wear makeup and rock the trackies and a messy bun! Tongue Out FI rates me a 10, but he has to say that haha!

    Post # 34
    442 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Yea I’m going with a 5. I don’t mind my face but I HATE my body. And Fiance is the first and only man to really find me attractive and he would rate me an 8 I bet because he is lovely 🙂

    Post # 35
    1251 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2009

    Uhhh. Honestly? A 4. Maybe a 5, on a good day.

    I asked Darling Husband what I was, and he said, “11.” But, he’s biased and has to say that. LOL.

    Post # 36
    1805 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Everyone is so beautiful and rating themselves so low! cmon ladies! I dunno if I’m gonna sound crazy but I feel like a 10 on a good day and an 8 on a really bad day! My fiancé and I are wasted in the top pic haha hence his red face but I think he’s a 9-10 depending on how in shape he is… When he’s working out his abs and arms make me drool haha

    Post # 37
    593 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I think I range a lot.. On a good day, I give myself like an 8. When I wake up in the morning a 4.. and that might be to high.. I am fairly happy with my body minus my arms, they are to flabby. And I wish I had a bigger chest (I am an A cup.. wish I was a B.. sometimes I look like i’m 15 in a bathing suit). But I have a flat stomach and my Fiance (as well as others) say I have a nice butt. Face wise.. I hate my hair. Its super fine and stick straight. But its managable. I don’t mind my face but I go through spells where I break out. 

    Post # 38
    1990 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Jabberwocky:  LOL your response literally made me LOL! love you… you explained me perfectly.

    @jenilynevette:  +1 to the personality points boosting scores! you and I are the same!

    @MRSsrm85:  hahaha I ALSO think its good to be prettier than your man! Gives me a confidence boost just thinking about the security that comes with being the cuter SO. lol

    I agree with a PP saying a lot of girls don’t want to seem too cocky so they went with a save 7… I did the same but I have reasons! lol

    I am 5’8″ with long brown hair, big brown eyes, high cheekbones, freckles, a sparkling personality and a some extra lbs to bring it all into perspective. lol

    I love to laugh, smile, flirt and joke and get hit on pretty much every time my girlfriends and I go out so I do feel like I could have probably pulled off a 8 but I have body issues that bring me back down to earth (i.e. thin skin so veins in my legs show, saggy skin from childhood obesity, dark circles under by eyes, the some wrinkles from too much California sun, etc). 

    I feel like a pretty cute 7 most days in my casual make up/clothes…

    I always think a SMILE goes a long way to up my rating though too:

    and then make up helps enhance my features a bit sometimes as well:


    The good news is, on my wedding day I felt like a STRONG 10 and Darling Husband agreed! hehehe

    …its all downhill from here… 

    Tongue Out




    Post # 39
    964 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    my gran in photo with me, I’m probably a 6.

    Post # 40
    1782 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I rated myself an 8, my fiance is also a solid 8 – maybe higher. We are both attractive peeps. Wink Anyone ever notice the show Revenge – nearly the whole cast is solid 8’s and higher? !!!! It’s amazing! Love that show!

    Post # 42
    1782 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014
    Post # 43
    1105 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    This is me and future hubby. I’d say we’re both about a 7 on an average day. Although in half of my photos I’m about a 4, but 7 when I look in the mirror, and in pictures like this maybe a bit higher (with hair and make up and a nice dress on)

    Post # 45
    1618 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    6.  I have a pretty face, but my body is definitely not what one would call “hot”.  My husband is way hotter than I am.  However, on my wedding day, I was absolutely a solid 10.

    Normal me (with my awesome new scar!):

    Wedding day me:

    Post # 46
    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I would rate myself a 6 i think im average and Im kinda insecure with my beauty marks on my face Embarassed.

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