(Closed) spinoff: What would you ask/say to your FI/SO's EX if……

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’d ask her why she got pregnant by an old boyfriend and tried to make him believe it was his. 

I’m really, really hoping I run into her one day so I can ask her in person

Post # 4
2100 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would not ask anything I would just smile sweetly and wave.  My Hubby is seriously thoughtful, kind, generous and loving and she just wanted him to foot the bills and cater to her every whim and need.  He cooked, cleaned, shopped, looked after the kids and made an excellent salary.   And when he had to take a job transfer to another city (to keep the excellent salary) she said she was not moving, wanted a divorce (which then she drug her feet on for years) and was getting a dog to replace him.

His entire family is thrilled to see him loved and appreciated and having fun for the first time in his adult life.  I intend to spend the rest of my life making sure he feels that way. 🙂

By The Way I felt it was poetic justice when the dog she bought to replace him actually ran away.

Post # 5
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@unixfairy:  Do we have the same hubby?  It sounds like they have the same ex-wife 😉

Post # 6
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would ask her with the fuck she cheated on him?! Not that I can really complain because it ended their relationship but now he has serious trust issues. Dumb girl. I mean really, how could you cheat on such an amazing man?

Post # 7
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Why it was any of her business at all about how young I am…

But then… I don’t really care actually.

Post # 8
5668 posts
Bee Keeper

No drama? I’d probably just punch her in the face. I don’t really want to know why she cheated on him or thought it was okay to ask my Fiance to get tested for Save-The-Date Cards. She thought her man on the side gave her one and was too afraid to get tested herself so she made Fiance go. Fucking classy, right?

Yeah, no. I’d just punch her. Lucky for her we no longer live on the same continent.

Post # 9
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

@Aure:  Wow…super classy. What a jerk.

I’d ask her how she could cheat on someone like him. Then deny it after he walked in on her cheating on him. Right…you must have slipped and fallen on the other guy’s d*ck. 

Post # 11
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yeah – I guess I’m lucky in that we have zero issues with any of DH’s exes.  They aren’t like best-buds or anything but they don’t affect our lives in any way what-so-ever.

So I wouldn’t ask them anything.  Why bother them?  I guess the only thing I can think of would be asking his HS girlfriend to tell me funny stories from his HS days.

Post # 12
2951 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Id ask her to admit herself into a psych ward and seek counseling.
(they never really dated, but she stalked him forever!)


If I could do anything and get away with it; id punch her in the face then spit on her.

Post # 13
4038 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would thank for her never telling Darling Husband that she was only with him because she couldn’t be with his (married) brother. I was given this tidbit of information independently from both BsIL and their wives, and it’s one of the few secrets that I’ll keep from Darling Husband (as will my ILs). 

Post # 14
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I would tell her she is a huge bitch for stringing my Darling Husband along like she did. Nevermind all the horrible things she did to me.

Post # 15
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My Fiance doesn’t have an EX! Is that crazy?!?! I had one serious boyfriend before him, but he’d only ever gone on one or two dates with different girls. I feel so lucky now, I’m sorry for your SO’s nasty pasts! Made them the men they are today, though, and able to appreciate all of you as sane women 🙂 

Post # 16
11394 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would ask her what it felt like to lose the best thing she could have had!

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