(Closed) Spinoff : Who would you chose to save?? SO or other beloved person

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: If you had to pick between saving your So and some one elce you love who would you pick?
    SO : (60 votes)
    55 %
    Children : (36 votes)
    33 %
    Siblings : (4 votes)
    4 %
    Parents : (4 votes)
    4 %
    Friends : (0 votes)
    Pet : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Aunt/uncle : (0 votes)
    Cousin : (0 votes)
    Neice/nephew : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    80 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    we have kids so if it was Fiance or one of the kids it would be the kids hands down, but I would expect the same answer from him

    if it was Fiance or my brothers that would be a really hard choice because I raised my brothers and they are like my children

     

    Anyone else and I would most likely choose my Fiance but I am rational person and it would be depending on the situation and who was injured and who wasnt and the realistic chance of who would survive and who would not

    Post # 4
    Member
    665 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Oh this is so tough! I can’t imagine my life with out my SO but my niece is deffinitely the one I think I would have to save. Other than that it’s my SO no doubts about it. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    i think the only one who would trump my husband would be my son.

    Post # 7
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    333 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    horrible question, but i’ve talked about this with friends before!

    if it was between SO and my younger sister (only sibling), i would choose sister. because a) she’s been my family since she was born, b) because she’s younger, c) because i love her to bits. duh.

    between SO and anyone else, SO.

    if we had kids, i would probably have to choose them.

    Post # 8
    Member
    62 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I will choose my SO before children, siblings or anyother person without even thinking about it.

    Post # 9
    Member
    812 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Kids hands down. My Fiance is a strong and healthy man, he’d want me to save the kids first.

    Post # 10
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I’m not yet a parent but when that time comes, I would pick my kid. As it stands right now, the only other person who I would even consider saving over Darling Husband would be my mom but I don’t think I could bring myself to save her over my husband. I would be lost without ether of them but I think my mom would expect me to save Darling Husband.

    Post # 11
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    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We don’t have kids either, but I’d pick them if we did. This is tough, but I probably would pick Fiance. But then I think think, what if Fiance and I get divorced one day, then I wasted my pick!

    Post # 12
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    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Currently? I would pick my Darling Husband. I don’t think there is anyone in the world I love as much as him. Not saying it wouldn’t be freaking hard, but I think that would be the outcome.

    When I have children, they would be saved first before my husband.

    Post # 13
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    661 posts
    Busy bee

    This is such a horrible question… I dont think I could even answer properly :S. I dont have kids, but if I did, it would be them HANDS DOWN! They are the weakest, most vunerable and no parent wants to out live their child, I can imagine loosing a child to be the worse heart break EVER, however, the love I have for each person/animal or what ever is different in each case, no one can compare to the love I have for my mother, the love I feel for my Fiance is a different type of soul mate love, etc. – i THINK I would rather die then have to choose to be honest.

    Post # 14
    Member
    661 posts
    Busy bee

    @9ja4life:  Really, over your children? Wow, brave comment.

    Post # 15
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    2459 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I would choose my Darling Husband, I am 34 weeks pregnant so I may have to change my ans in 6 weeks time.

    Post # 16
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    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @rdownie1:   I thought she meant children in general, not HER children.

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