(Closed) SPINOFF-Who's NOT Likely Getting A Holiday Proposal?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Are you NOT expecting to get a holiday proposal?

    I'm Not Expecting One and I'm AWESOME!

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  • Post # 3
    1310 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’m not likely getting one, but I’m perfectly fine with it because we’ve been together just a year.  Good luck to all of you who are waiting and ready and want one!!! πŸ™‚

    Post # 4
    2514 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    I’m not getting one.  I’m ok with it.  I don’t like holiday proposals.  There’s already so much going on.  I’d rather it be one random Tuesday.

    Ask me at the end of January how I feel.  πŸ˜‰  Because that’s when I’m going to start chomping at the bit. 

    Post # 5
    190 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    @veryberry13:  I’m not getting one based on conversations we have had–and I am okay with it because we just bought a house! I think it will be coming by spring anyways (we have a big trip coming up then), so I can wait πŸ˜€ I hope yours is coming soon!!

    Post # 6
    796 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Definitely not getting one this holiday season and I’m fine with that.   I plan to buy myself clothes on Cyber Monday πŸ™‚  Might get a mani before Thanksgiving as well as a haircut… we’ll see πŸ™‚

    Post # 7
    1991 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I’m not expecting one , as my SO loathes the very thought of holiday proposals. He has been telling me for years that he would never propose on a holiday. I love the thought of a romantic Christmas proposal under the tree, but it’s not in the cards for this girl. I’ll be making spa dates instead.

    Post # 8
    796 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    @veryberry13:  Also, I’d love to see your new right hand ring!

    Post # 9
    11517 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @veryberry13:  This was me last year.  FH had told me that I wasn’t getting my ring over the holidays and I really had to give myself a few pep-talks to make sure I didn’t ruin the holidays being upset about it (we were already 6 months past his ‘promised’ date). 

    I gave myself pep talks in the mirror to remind myself that it was okay that I wasn’t getting a ring and to gear myself up for the fact that it wouldn’t be under the tree in the morning.  I did other fun things to keep my mind off it – played games with the family, watched fun movies (stayed away from too many rom coms), played with my niece and nephew, went shopping…anything to stay distracted.  I also avoided facebook – seeing other people’s proposal announcements had a tendency to set me off.

    Post # 12
    1350 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I am going shopping – RETAIL THERAPY, THANK YOU!!  Also, I’m awesome πŸ™‚  Those are the options I voted for!

    Post # 13
    2188 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2024

    Yeah I don’t expect a holiday proposal for Thanksgiving or Christmas or New Years…and it sucks. We will be traveling and in very romantic places but he hasn’t even asked me what type of ring I like or my size etc so I’m fairly certain a proposal is the furthest thing from his mind at this point. ugh depressing.Undecided


    Post # 14
    609 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2016

    With the way my ering process is going, SO might get the ering by the end of next month, December. SO’s not a big fan of holiday proposals but IDK! We shall see!

    Post # 15
    1352 posts
    Bumble bee

    I voted on the other one too, since I’m hoping, but realistically it’ll probably happen in 3-4 months. 

    I think I’ll disactivate facebook for the holiday season. I do NOT want to see the flood of engagement posts I suffered through last year πŸ˜›

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