(Closed) SPINOFF: Would your SO/FI Leave you for that….?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would your SO/FI Leave you if you secretly wore diapers to go #2?
    No, he would stand by my side and get me the help I needed. : (164 votes)
    59 %
    Yes, he would split. : (44 votes)
    16 %
    I'm not sure -- Id hope he would stay. : (66 votes)
    24 %
    Other -- explain. : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 47
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    223 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    There is a world of difference between it being a medical issue and a fetish one finds sexual pleasure in. 

    Also guys are way more open and into non-standard sexual concepts than your average woman. (thanks to Internet porn I’m thinking it takes a whole lot more to freak a guy out than we would ever imagine.) 

    Also adult diapers are one thing, a scat fetish another and then having a legit medical issue is on the polar opposite of those. Your post just kind of rolls the whole thing into one big blob when its not. 

    Post # 48
    Member
    312 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    @Barbiestylez:  omg!! Hahaha ah HaHaha this is crAzy. He has issues…..especially if it’s not for a medical reason. C’mon that can’t be comfortable. I hate even wearing pads. Lol. I love the threads you come up with.

    On a serious note, I have crohns disease and I can understand not wanting to go in a public restroom but at some point you just have to use the bathroom. I asked Fiance and he just looked at me all weirded out and not taking me seriously. If I were the girl I would be seeking a therapist for myself after finding that out.

    Post # 49
    Member
    1460 posts
    Bumble bee

    I just asked him….I just knew he’d say he’d be on the first thing smoking lol but he said medically he’d def stay and if it were a fetish type situation, he said “we’d be doing a lot of talking” and that I’d have to agree to some serious therapy.

    His response actually made me smile for some stupid reason. It’s poop. Why am I smiling? lol

    Post # 50
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    1956 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    The only way he would leave me in this situation is if I was happy enough to use the adult diapers, and had no intention of switching to use a toilet. If it was a psychological thing he’d help me through it. 

    Post # 51
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    3867 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    He’d be willing to stay with me and work on the issue, but the issue MUST be resolved. If this was something I was plannning on doing for the rest of my life, he would not support me. Frankly, I’ve read through that thread before and it gave me the heeby jeebies. There’s being supportive and there’s being complicite. He said that he would provide me all the support I needed, but if I wasn’t willing to seek help and get it resolved he would not be able to stay with me, and honestly? I don’t blame him! Like I said, that article greatly disturbed me. If the roles were reversed, I’m sorry to say I’d be a little firmer than the OP. Get it fixed. Period. No ifs, ands, or buts about it–that is a SERIOUS issue that needs to be addressed immediately. It needs to be fixed. It is not okay. I’d have more respect for my SO to exhaust options getting me help and having to leave me if it can’t be fixed, than simply sticking by my side allowing me to soil a diaper. No. No. 

    Post # 52
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    1724 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 1998

    The reasons for soiling myself in a diaper matter a lot here. Some physical reason that makes it difficult for me to tell when I have to go? I think he’d stay, although it would put a serious strain on our marriage. A mental problem? He’d be getting me into therapy pronto, and if I wasn’t making any strides after that, honestly, he may consider leaving me. Maybe not.

    If I just wore them because I found it sexually arousing or something, he may also shrug his shoulders…or he might split. Honestly, either response wouldn’t shock me.

    Post # 53
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    433 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My Fi would stay 100% he’s one of those guys that loves unconditionally there’s seriously nothing physical that would make him leave me..I haven’t asked him about the diaper thing but once we were watching ‘love and other drugs’ where anne hathaway has parkinson’s and a guy who’s married to a woman with parkinson’s tells her bf (jake gyllenhaal) wait til she she starts shitting her pants or something like that and I asked him if he’d help me if I started shitting my pants and he said yea of course..i’m a lucky girl lol

    Post # 54
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    2487 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I once dated a guy who still wet the bed it didn’t work out for other immaturity issues on his side so I wonder if there was an underlying issue but it wasn’t a big deal cause I knew like the 2nd week of dating the thing that would bother me is secrets coming out after the weddinG. 

    the morning of all secrets need to be on the table. Two weeks before our wedding we had a big secret unloading session although everything was mostly from before when we knew eachother our love for eachother grew immensely ! 

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