(Closed) Split Personality

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
98 posts
Worker bee

It sounds like he is doing more pro-marriage than anti-marriage stuff . .. . Maybe he was just having a bad day.  Guys have emotions and feelings that go up and down like we do sometimes . . . maybe he just let an uncensored comment out of his mouth.  It was perhaps how he felt in the moment, but I would pay attention to what he actually *does* in terms of his actions, not just his words here.  

How much have you been talking about marriage to him, and how long have you been together?  Since you already have a baby together, you probably should talk about where things are going and what the long-term goals are for the relationship if you haven’t already. 

Post # 4
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I agree with the PP – he looks like he’s actually DOING a lot more to get a proposal together than many guys do.  many simply talk the talk, but your Boyfriend or Best Friend is walking the walk.  He had a moment of frustration, maybe he got dashed in reserving a place for the proposal, he heard someone else talking about the stress of big weddings, etc.  Or he could have just been stressed overall and planning to get married may have just seemed too much at the moment. 

Try not to stress, give him a little space, and I’m sure he’ll continue to come through for you. 

Post # 5
5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree with pp and this kinda reminds me of a story of a couple of friends of mine.

so my friends decided that they were ready to start trying to have a baby. they were both SO excited about it. THEN she gets pregnant and suddenly she’s upset and spends 2 days crying!

The reality of it all kinda hit her and even though she really wanted to have a baby and was ready it still hit her like that.

I know it’s not exactly the same but I think you SO is obviously looking into taking the steps to get married BUT there may be times/moments that hit kinda hits him in the face and he’s like WHOA…

I wouldn’t take it as anything more than that… we all do that with one thing or another… even when it’s what we really really want. I think that he’s just comfortable enough and trusts you enough to be able to share those things with you… which that is a good thing! 😉

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