(Closed) Spoiled Brat…

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Both are really pretty! But who knows? Maybe he got the Verragio. I guess you will have to wait and see! Try not to worry about it. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
5031 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

Why did you tell him that either would be okay when that isn’t the case? I think it would have been easier to disappoint him before the ring was purchased than either to disappoint him afterwards or to regret it forever.

Post # 5
9082 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@echomomm:  +1

Don’t tell him something is okay when it isn’t and you’ll probably end up resenting him for it. Not the best way to start off an engagement.

Post # 8
1607 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

wait and see- no use in getting upset now. Plus, think of what a crazy stressful experience this is for him- trying to pick something perfect that we will love for the rest of our lives! Many of us will never give a gift so important and meaningful (aside from children, but we don’t pick those!)

Its hard not to be anxious (I was the WORST waiting bee and I had my heart set on a specific ring, so I feel you) but just try to enjoy it and relaxxxxxxxxxx

Post # 9
9648 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

They’re both beautiful! Perhaps if he has bought the Shane Co ring, you could buy the Verragio for yourself as a RHR a few years down the line, or he could as an anniversary present πŸ™‚

Post # 10
7445 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

Just get an intricate wedding band then.

Post # 12
12005 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

First – I honestly like the Shane Co ring better.

I see all those cutouts and IMMEDIATELY think how dirty it will be and how hard it will be to keep clean.  I think the Shane Co one is prettier all around.  


Second – just get a wedding band that has the rose gold that you want, get a more intricate design on that.  


Third – there’s always anniversary bands Wink

Post # 14
9648 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@Epicpooka:  They do look like engagement rings, but nothing wrong with wearing it as a RHR, it is gorgeous and would make a great RHR πŸ™‚

Post # 15
378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Cory_loves_this_girl:  I second the wedding band thing.  And also, don’t get weird things in your head about Mario bros fly trap whatever you said thing.  No one else sees that, and you don’t wanna be thinking about it when you look down.


there is also something to be said about the perks of the customer service of Shane and co.  They are both very gorgeous, but it’s okay to have missed feelings.  Your going to wear it forever, and it’s okay to feel a little apprehensive about your feelings towards this decision!! 

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