(Closed) Spouse help pay half of the mortgage

posted 8 years ago in Money
Post # 17
3306 posts
Sugar bee

I would pump the brakes on getting married and work on these issues before you finally commit.

Post # 18
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We shareshare share everything. We have a joint bank account that both our wages go in to and bills come out of, then we put some in savings and sped the rest between us. This works great for us as neither of us take advantage ( eg going on massive spending sprees) and it was no problem when I earned more money and no problem now he earns more money :). Would this not work for you?

Post # 20
10357 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

How about you’re married and in it together, so the money is all joint?

Depending on what state you live in, the law looks at it that way anyway – regardless of how you divvy it up (unless there’s a prenup). Something to think about. Seems like you’re keeping her at a financial arm’s length, which would be a no-go with me.

Post # 21
300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

My Fiance and I have a joint bank account and the bills get taken out of that. We don’t have money problems at all and it really helps us to track our money better. If we want to buy something we do and if the other person has an objection to it we talk about the pros and cons until someone’s mind changes. No arguements, no problems. My parents did it this way and his parents do it this way as well

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