Spouse is a major mommas boy…. advice please!!

posted 4 months ago in Guests
Post # 2
298 posts
Helper bee

You need out of this marriage.

Post # 4
4745 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

marshmallowbee :   Your FI and his mother have a toxic relationship together.   It sounds as if neither one includes you in their world.

I’d suggest leaving them both in the dust and starting on a new, healthy path in life.

Post # 5
656 posts
Busy bee

Yeah, the problem isn’t with your MIL it’s with your spouse. It would be one thing if he was trying to make peace or trying to be respectful to his mother while fixing a situation. They’re both nuts. Get out. 

Post # 6
2032 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

“No” is a complete sentence. 

Post # 7
2221 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter's Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Run like your tampon string is on fire.  You were the incubator to provide a baby for his mommy purely because he can’t have one with her – he’s emotionally married to her and you will never come first. File for custody, pack your child up and leave NOW. This will not change.

Post # 8
3466 posts
Sugar bee

KiwiDerbyBride :  Ditto and stealing ‘Run like your tampon string is on fire.’ 



Post # 9
122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Ballantyne Hotel, Charlotte

These two are endangering the welfare of your child. Maybe I am being over dramatic but your husband is violent and his mother essentially tried to kidnap your baby.


Post # 10
3327 posts
Sugar bee

marshmallowbee :  You call him your spouse and also FH – future husband. Which is he? Are you legally married?

Post # 11
2032 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

beethree :  she’s in Canada so it’s possible to be both. They are probably legally common law and engaged to be married. 

Post # 16
1708 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

What a horrible situation. You need out. Like yesterday.

So let’s work that out. Can you stay with your mom and bring your baby? When did he trash the apartment? Can you do a police report to lay the groundwork to fight any custody issues? In commonlaw , what are his and your legal rights?

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