(Closed) Stag do should i be annoyed by this?

posted 6 years ago in Traditions
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

Aww, no, I understand why you’re feeling left out.  You probably didn’t expect there to be any girls there, and you’re “stuck” at home (no offence to your little one, you know what I mean!).

I wouldn’t worry much about it or get upset with him.  Hopefully you can put on a movie or pick up a book after she goes to sleep, to distract yourself?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ugh, there were two men along for my bachelorette party … they had been recruited as designated drivers for all the girls, which was great and I really appreciated it, but … WHY ARE THERE MEN AT MY BACHELORETTE PARTY?? Plus, they were each dating one of the girls, so of course the girls were hanging out with their boyfriends instead of the rest of us.

So, it’s entirely possible your Fiance isn’t happy with them being there either. Either way, I completely understand your feelings and they are completely valid!

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

that would annoy me too – it’s supposed to be a guys night thing! All my Fiance keeps saying is he wants to hang out the guys and drink beer and watch sports for his bach party – sooo there better not be any females there! 😉  I wouldn’t dwell on it – not worth it, but I’d be annoyed for a minute too!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

is it possible that they were also on a night out and the bumped into the lads and decided to tag along.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Two questions. 

1. Is he spending time with you and his child on his birthday? 

 

2. Do you get to have a stagette do, as well?

 

 

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ok.  I would definitely be annoyed.  Maybe I don’t have all the details, but you come first now, hon, you and the chlid. 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Lol once i accidentally crashed a friends bachelor party.  No one told me it was a bachelor party thay just asked me if i wanted to hang out.  Needless to say, when i got there, i was the only girl and i felt really awkward!

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ordinary female friend… yes I would have a problem. But this is his own sister (well, stepsister). and she’s gone looking for them to wish her brother happy birthday… I don’t think this is a major problem. A bit of a (minor) faux pas by the stepsister, but not worth getting upset over.

Post # 15
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Busy bee

Nothing to get upset over. 

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper

Look at it this way- he is probably less likely to get up to anything too bad with his sister present! Just something to consider!

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