- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
my fiance is away in London tonight for his football mates stag. I gave him some ground rules as i know they are going to a strip club. My rule was its ok for him to go but no lap dances and no getting close to females in general!! his brother who is going to be his best man at our wedding mentioned that my Fiance will be going to a strip club for his stag to which i said i expressed my thoughts on the matter.
Generally if you take the stag to a strip club the guys will pay for a lap dance for him. In my eyes this is disrespectful to me as i cant understand why he would want a practically naked woman girating all over him if hes supposed to me marrying me ??? I dont understand this last night as a single man thing either. As far as im concerned he stopped being a single man when he chose to spend the rest of his life with me. So i basically told my future brother in law that if he is taken to a strip club then there will be no wedding. My Fiance hates things like that anyway (hes pretty shy) so he agreed that there will be no strippers (i turned the situation around and asked him if i would be allowed to strip for a group of guys and have another guy half naked rubbing up against me and he got all sulky and said no)…his brother has other ideas.
What are your thoughts on the whole last night as a single man thing and stip clubs?