- 5 years ago
I first wrote on this page a month ago when my boyfriend of four years suddenly broke up with me. I wanted to thank you all for the kind words and support. Also, I wanted to let other girls who are dealing with a similar situation know that they will be ok. Better than ok.
My ex turned into a totally different person during the breakup/ me moving out process. He became hateful as if I had wronged him. He tried to turn himself into the victim. He threatened to evict me twice while I was searching and packing daily. He accused me of stealing silly things like hangers, wash clothes, and the vanilla. I started to become worried that he was becoming unhinged and I wasn’t safe.
It took me three weeks to find an apartment and move out of that toxic living situation. I was able to find a place I could take my fur babies with me. I am so much happier. I never stooped to his level or said nasty things to him or his friends. I tried to be as classy as possible. While I am very nervous about starting anew at 30 I am excited for the next chapter, and I know some day I will find someone who is perfect for me. While this has sucked, I feel so much stronger and hopeful for the future!