(Closed) Starting to feel like we are "unofficially" engaged

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

If you’re looking at venues, you’re engaged! 🙂

Albeit, you’re saying unofficially, which I am technically in the same boat as you. But I still consider myself “engaged” anyway. Because I’m fabulous.

And you are too! 😉

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I say its unofficial…

However with a caveat, do you know his plan/timeline? If not I would stop planning till you know it because it could lead to dissapointment. I have seen many bees go down this path. In fact I would stop talking about it until you are engaged (I know its fun, but…)

You will have a date and colors and BMs picked out, but somehow your SO doesnt propose because XYZ and you are disappointed, but he thinks everything is great because you have “kind of” plans. you need to be on the exact same page.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@ThreeMeers:  I do have to agree with this in many cases!

Post # 7
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Tarheelgurl:  Well, its hard not to do some things out of “order”! YAY! 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@Tarheelgurl:  That’s soooo exciting!! Congrats!!! Can’t wait to read your post after your SO makes it “official!!”

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