(Closed) Starting up an LDR again…

posted 8 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
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Bumble Beekeeper

We did international distance for the first 12 months of our relationship! It’s tough!

Honestly though, in some ways I think it’s easier – you kind of settle in for the long haul, because you don’t get to see each other as often. Fewer ups and downs, so to speak (meaning the emotions that come with each parting – fewer chances to see each other = fewer times saying goodbye; fewer ‘interuptions’ to your routine/coping/etc.)

Having a realistic end point in mind (mutually in mind, I mean) helps a lot too, we found. We started talking marriage way earlier than if we’d been in a local relationship, because we both knew we had to find a way around the distance. 🙂

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