(Closed) State your strange fears here. A) I’ll trip. B) My underwear will somehow

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
1044 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I worry my Future Father-In-Law will be an asshole to my Future Mother-In-Law (divorced 8+years) and make her cry.

I also worry that the stress of knowing Future Father-In-Law will be at the wedding will get to Future Mother-In-Law.

Post # 17
1664 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Rain is #1 by far.

I’m also afraid of the bathroom situation with my dress and that my strapless dress will fall down, that my parents will step on my dress as they walk me down the aisle, that I’ll make weird cry faces. My FH also has a huge, chatty family, and he is not very good at breaking off conversation.  I’m afraid we won’t be able to talk to everyone, and that we won’t be able to spend as much time with the people we are close to and don’t get to see a lot.

Post # 18
152 posts
Blushing bee

1. No one will dance.

2. The bridesmaids will be bitchy divas (Not saying my friends are bitchy divas, I’ve just heard so many horror stories about the bridesmaids being divas!)

3. The photographer won’t show up and I won’t have any professional pictures of my wedding

4. My dress will rip or get stained

5. Fiance will spill on himself (he spills all. the. time.)

6. The ring bearer and flower girls will throw a tantrum while walking down the aisle

7. I’ll cry too much and ruin my makeup

Post # 19
1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh…thought of more….

My Future Mother-In-Law and her friends will be mean girls to Future Father-In-Law (they have been divorced for 30+ years)

I’ll get sick

DH spilling something on my dress and me having to contain my anger (hey…I think I may want to sell it!)

Post # 20
928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

– Getting my period during our beach ceremony

– Rain

– Fiance calling the whole thing off (this one is totally unfounded but still…nightmare!)

– The food will be terrible

– People will complain … about the food, about the venue, about the ceremony, hell about anything!

– That our photagrapher is somehow not a real person and I’ve paid money to a internet scammer.

– We lose the rings.


Post # 21
2775 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

That it would rain (we had a rain plan, but it was definitely less than ideal).

Alternatively, that it would be scorching hot and I’d pass out (this happens to me sometimes when I’m hot and dehydrated).

That people wouldn’t “get” our action stations (“ughhh, why can’t I just sit down and be served a plate of food, or walk through a buffet line and get all my food at once”).

Post # 22
1356 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

ohhh..where to begin..

  • my groom getting drunk. his family just doesn’t let up. I know he’s a big boy makes his own decision yada yada, but c’mon, males egg each other on.
  • my 2 y/o nephew/ring bearer booking it toward the lake instead of down the aisle!
  • like everyone else, over-crying. I also did not cry during proposal so I’m hoping to god I keep it together.
  • the limo won’t show up. I have persistent dreams about this!

Post # 23
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

1) my parents and in law will bring on some drama !!!!! 


2) I’ll fall walking down the aisle

3) I’ll begin to cry and ruin my make while i’m coordinating vendors (…odd…)

4) judgement of my conservative family towards our modern wedding and more liberal inlaws


Post # 24
29 posts
  • Wedding: October 2012

I will get my stupid period that day and have horrible cramps.

My bridal party is late because they were too busy doing last minute shit they should have done the day before.

The turn around (all in one place venue) will not go over smoothly and it will sound like a construction site.


Trying to find new and inventive ways to go to the bathroom.

My favorite people bitching about everything. Or better yet someone falling asleep (like my uncle at my engaement pary dick!!!)

Post # 25
3066 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011


  • That it will rain


  • That my garter will fall to my feet while I am walking.

  • My father will show up.


  • Unaccounted for guests will be brought.

Post # 26
4581 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

  • Tripping on and ripping my dress because I’m not getting it bustled
  • Turning red from having everyone’s attention
  • Feeling like I’m not pretty/looking terrible in all my pictures
  • People won’t dance
  • DOC not doing my decor properly (DOC is really just the banquet manager at the venue; I’m seriously trying to figure out how I can just fit decorating into my schedule and do it myself)
  • Uninvited guests showing up

Post # 27
410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Another great post!

Bad weather

My period

Me being a bridezilla

My flabby arms and the dreaded back fat!

Me screwing up during the ceremony, I HATE being in front of everyone I’ll be SO nervous!!

People being put out having to find something to do between the ceremony and cocktail hour

The people I really want there not showing up

The dance floor being too small

The venue being too small


It all going by too fast

Waking up the next day regretting all the money spent

Post # 28
485 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

-ugly cry

-late family members

-i’ll trip

-i’ll forget part of my vows

-he won’t write his vows

-it’ll be boring

-the food will suck

-no one will dance

Post # 29
4801 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Everyone will hate the band and not dance.

I’ll forget place cards and no one will know what to do (for some reason my nightmares focus around this one). This one I have control over though.

One of the many children attending (I lost that battle) will be running all over and rip my dress, or spill something awful on me, etc.



Post # 30
897 posts
Busy bee

I’m afraid that hubby will make grumpy faces in any pictures that my dad takes, because they don’t like each other

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