(Closed) Statement Necklaces for a gift????? (not wearing with dress) HELP!

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll:
    Makeup : (0 votes)
    Statement Necklace : (4 votes)
    50 %
    Other : (4 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 3
    92 posts
    Worker bee

    i like the necklace idea ! 

    Post # 4
    9956 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Etiquette Snob here…

    The rule of thumb is that Thank You Gifts should be chosen for each individual person… vs matchy-matchy

    So something you TRULY KNOW THEY’D LOVE

    If you are already saying… “but I’m not sure if they would like this as a gift”

    Then chances are it isn’t the right one.

    — — —

    Think about each girl as an Individual, and the relationship / special bond you have with her.  What are her interests / passions.  What do you guys share in common ?  What would she absolutely ADORE receiving as a gift (perhaps that item she’d love to buy for herself… but never does)

    Just make sure that you spend an equal / similar amount on each gal.

    Hope this helps,


    Post # 6
    765 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Agree with PP. If you have to ask yourself if it’s the right gift, chances are that it probably isn’t. 

    Post # 7
    45656 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    An upgade for their makeup for your wedding is definitely not a gift.

    I think it is risky buying another other than very classic jewelry as a gift- gold chains, diamond studs etc.


    Post # 8
    630 posts
    Busy bee

    I agree that the makeup upgrade is not an unrelated wedding gift, so I would forget about that.

    My only problem with the statement necklace is I feel that, when you choose a statement piece, it really is a statement about the individual. If you think they would like them, go for it, but I would go with something more personal.

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