(Closed) Staying in bed/Lying down after sex: Is it true?

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
2525 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I got up and am pregnant! I don’t believe it’s true because I believe your cervix closes up/narrows again after sex so everything that needs to be in there will be. I suppose it might help get the sperm started on its journey but as it can take 3 days for the sperm to get up, I don’t think laying down for 10 mins would make much of a difference.

Post # 3
2554 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I did it and got pregnant. I didn’t do it and got pregnant. Do there ya go!

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 7 months ago by  NewfieBullet.
Post # 4
4054 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t think it hurts, but my RE said that’s just a stupid myth, and not to bother.

Post # 5
9489 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well if you get up and immediately go to the bathroom and it all…runs out, I assume that might not be as effective. I don’t think a few minutes in bed after could hurt.

Post # 6
193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I had also heard this strategy, so Darling Husband and I started DTD right before bed so I could stay horizontal and just fall asleep.  Well…got a UTI!!

If you’re going to stay laying down, just make sure you clean yourself up before bed.  Don’t make my mistake!  I’m in my TWW, so don’t know if the strategy helped at all but will definitely not be doing that again next month.

Post # 7
10 posts
  • Wedding: September 2015

Its just a stupid myth but make sur to stand up to urinate to reduce the risk of a uti.

Post # 8
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I stressed out about this because some people were saying you had to put your feet up in the air for 15 minutes and all this stuff that I wasn’t doing. I got pregnant and I just tried to be still for like 3-4 minutes. Honestly – if you don’t need to rest for a few minutes – whatever you were doing wasn’t worth it anyway! lol! Definitely don’t do what penguin0620 did. Poor thing!

Post # 9
1953 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I stayed laying down for about 10 minutes each time before using the bathroom and am 22 weeks pregnant. But I have heard of plenty of women who have not done that and gotten pregnant too!

Post # 11
692 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I jumped up to pee/clean-up pretty much right away and got knocked-up.  I did try to ‘clench’ a bit to keep it from dribbling down my leg, maybe that pushed it up further, don’t know.

Post # 12
462 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I always go to the bathroom immediately after. Currently pregnant. I don’t think it makes a difference.

Post # 13
1382 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think its a myth. But any sperm thats not in your cervix by about 15 minutes will die anyway, so if it makes you feel better to lie down, thats fine, but no need to go longer than that.

Post # 14
11051 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

weightwatchers152: I don’t think it hurts, but I don’t think it’s a, ‘It will fail otherwise’. I do it. I read oral sex and a shower’s a no no.

Post # 15
356 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I figured it couldn’t hurt to try and I wasn’t in a rush or anything after, so yes, I laid down with my hips slightly elevated for about 10 min after and I am pregnant now. Good luck!

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