- Mrs. Leeds
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
We are getting married Saturday, October 6th, 2012.
I was planning on sending out my Save-The-Date Cards in April, however, I have a special circumstance that I need help with.
Mr. Leeds’ birthday is a few days before our wedding and I have decided to throw him a surprise birthday party two days before we get married because I am nuts. The party will be in the evening on Thursday, October 4th, 2012.
So here is my problem, I don’t want to send out the b-day invites too early because that just means more time that a)some one can let the cat out of the bag or b)forget about it. But I am afraid that since 98% of our guests are coming from out of state that as soon as they get the Save-The-Date Cards they are going to start booking flights. So I feel like the Save-The-Date Cards and the b-day invites should go out the same day, but I also thought about sending b-day STD’s too….