(Closed) STD questions…. Who are you sending them to?

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

@TinyTina: I sent them to everyone that will be receiving an invite. I sent both Save-The-Date Cards and invite’s to parents and wedding party. Most will want them as a reminder and especially parents, as a keepsake.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I sent them to everyone who will get an invite. Mine were postcards so I didn’t put “and guest” for these but will do so on the invitations.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I sent them to everyone that would get a formal invite. So even if your cousin lives with his parents, I would send one to him, and one to them.  Parents and bridal party also got one.  I know my parents and a couple of my bridesmaids would want one for a keepsake.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

I sent them to close friends and fam only, I didnt specify and guest or not– no one asked either.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

family and also bridal party!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

oh! I did send one to my parents…they didn’t know what they looked like, but I thought they would enjoy getting one. Obviously, not because they NEEDED one, but just because I think they should have one. I wanted them to see the nice little touches that I put on them…I also kept one for myself! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

BE CAREFUL!!!  Only send them to people you are ABSOLUTELY 100% sure you want to invite.  We sent ours out to everyone about 9 months before the wedding, and when it came down to sending ivites, we realized our budget wasn’t going to cover the amount of people we wanted to invite. We also realized there were some people we didn’t really want to invite after all.  BUT, we already sent them Save The Dates so we were stuck.  I definitely recommend weeding through your list mulitiple times and only sending them to definites.  Just my two cents ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

BE CAREFUL!!!  Only send them to people you are ABSOLUTELY 100% sure you want to invite.  We sent ours out to everyone about 9 months before the wedding, and when it came down to sending ivites, we realized our budget wasn’t going to cover the amount of people we wanted to invite. We also realized there were some people we didn’t really want to invite after all.  BUT, we already sent them Save The Dates so we were stuck.  I definitely recommend weeding through your list mulitiple times and only sending them to definites.  Just my two cents ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

I just sent them to everyone that would later be getting an invitation. Even parents and bridal party.

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